Love afire between a 41 yrs. singe man and 21 Yrs. Girl Student.?

I (Bapi) was 41 years then - single and a struggling businessman. She (Annesha Dasgupta) was 21 years, young, emotional, inexperienced - a girl student (business school entrant). We came to know each other through internet chat. Gradually we started falling in virtual love; we were very satisfied in our love life though we never met in real. She has seen my photos and videos but I have seen nothing of her. We spent nights after nights chatting online or talking on the phone. I thought our cyber lovemaking was probably more enjoying than such acts in the real world - I still I believe it today. I guess ours were intense desire for each other that kept us connected as much as possible 鈥?during the day time or in nights.

After few months, suddenly I have started demanding more from her and wanted to see her in real. Though she assured but she never allowed me to see her in real. I can鈥檛 really agree that she was playing with me rather she was not confident enough to see me.

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In my life I have came in touch with many women - starting from my college days to my professional life but my feeling for the 21 years girl was entirely different. I believed I have truly loved her but at the same time I was scared of loosing her due to her young age. At last my fear of loosing her became true. I was emotionally hurt, cried a lot and taken many months to heal my wounds of loosing her. I am sure she had to suffer the same too.

Even today, when I read our chat archive, I find how intense was our love and our desire too - I have never experienced that with another woman in my entire life! I am definite that I will never be able to love another woman in the same way I have loved her - even though someone else is going to become my wife! I can never forget her and empty my heart filled with the love only for her. She left me and probably would ignore me if we ever happen to see ourselves face to face but I am sure that she would feel so by the direction of her brain...

How can you fall in love with someone who have never seen????? i know had good sex or whatever you did over the internet......she's not with you today because she was jus a young girl trying to have fun and you were her victim.....maybe she wasn't even 21 and she was a lot older....man you need to do a reality check because you can't jus start trusting people over the internet without even seeing them in person.....jus move on

yeah the only thing i can say is............... CREEPY!!!!!!!!!!

A 41 year old man shouldn't be dating a 21 year old girl. That is sick!!!!!!!!!!!!

I really don't have the problem with the 41/21 year old thing because 21 is an adult and you can do who and what you want but the internet thing ..yea she was messing with you and man don't be so gullible..internet dating/ chatting is a sham duh!!!

I can't believe at your age you would allow yourself to grow this kind of feelings for someone you NEVER saw. Don't take me wrong, I've fallen in love through the net too and I know it can be real, but you can't keep this situation going for too long.... you NEED to see, touch, smell and feel the chemistry IN PERSON with your lover, to see if your feelings are for real. Believe me, sometimes when you actually meet people you realize that everything there used to be between you was just VIRTUAL and the feelings are not really there. You need to do this ASAP after you start the virtual contact, because otherwise what you "build" with this person is just a fantasy. You're old enough to know this..... why would you let such a young girl get in to you this way? You have to come to terms with the idea that most of this "love" and "desire" was only on your mind: it's what YOU wanted to feel, and she did not choose to feel the same. Not all 21 yr olds are immature or players, she could have felt a genuine love for you... but she didn't and you have to accept this idea and move on. This was not real, so make your life with this new woman who IS REAL and learn to be happy with what REAL life can give you! Having dreams is ok, but living in one of them is not!!