I'm attracted to a doctor?

I recently worked for a male doctor (was his temporary secretary). I sensed that he liked me, as he asked me what I was doing for the weekend. On another occasion, he walked into the office and commented on how nice my perfume smelt. I thought he was going to ask me out any minute, but the phone rang one afternoon and a lady鈥檚 voice said, "Can you tell Dr 鈥︹€︹€︹€?to meet me for the theatre at 6.30". I was heartbroken. I subsequently left the job (as it was a temp one) and have seen this Dr again. On one or two occasions, he has been at the exact same time and place I pass when I leave work at night. Should I just ignore him, let him make the first move, or what?

Stay away from him, he will break your heart,

hes a player dear

it won't hurt to say hello... but is he married? giong out with someone? Dating...

be careful... but if he's free... what's to stop you?

If you like him, there's nothing stopping you from walking into his office and making a date with him; if he's single, you have no obligation to the other woman he's dating.

Go for it.

Why not to a musician ? Musicians are far better then the doctors.
They have better imagination and they are more romantic then the doctors.

Break the bone, closest to the body part you would be most interested in.

Sweetie send his @$$ to the curb there are many more guys that are worth waiting for the first move, not him.

Yummy, good money N good looks??? :) :) :) come on to him, but let him make the move

I think you should make the move

go fo it

he is a doctor, think how easy your life would be if you were f ing a doctor

Those questions you quote can be "passing time" questions.

I ask (male) workmates how their weekend was, and also comment if they are wearing nice cologne. I'm not gay!

There would have to be more about your encounters for me to think something was going to happen. Think you'd better wait for his first move - you could embarass yourself severely. But as everyone says, unless you take risks you won't get anywhere in life!

Talk to him, a question isn't going to hurt anything. If he is single and wants a little something with you I think its well worth it, a economically stable suitor that intelligent and kind and looks for details like a lady's perfume, shoot he seems like a winner! Now if he is married, I don't know about that. I personally wouldn't feel good about that situation. But whatever works for you sweetie...but first of all talk to him and sees why so many "coincidences" have been going on...

DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT HIM,
BUT IF HE IS SINGLE, YOU SHOULD SPEAK TO HIM FRANKLY ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS AND THEN LETS SEE WHAT HAPPENS,
ALL THE BEST DEAR

I presume you are both adults and that you are both single - so next time you see him in the same place at the same time - why not ask if fancies .... a drink before heading home. If he says yes - you're in with a chance, if he takes a raincheck then there's a possibility (depending on whether the raincheck comes off), if he blows you out completely you're no worse off than having to find another route home.
If you do have a casual drink end the night by suggesting you do it again and swapping numbers. It's 2006 - go for it ....

He was probably being called to the operating theatre, not the acting theatre! As you worked for him, you must know his email address... why not drop him a friendly email asking how he is etc. If he's into you you'll soon know! Good luck!

Does he wear a wedding ring?
The lady who called and left the message for the Doctor could have been anyone from a girlfriend, sister, mother, daughter, cousin, aunt, etc.
If you see him again, why not ask him out for coffee. If he goes, then you can talk to him over coffee and learn more about him and get a feel if he's interested in you or not.
I wouldn't wait for any guy to ask you out, because some men are shy and not good at those things.

r u kidding?
he's a doctor!!
get it girl
the woman on the phone was probably just a flavor of the week.
have fun trying to win him over. if you're serious about him.
he's probably ready to start settling down since he's done so much with his life already, he's looking for a complete, ya know!

He's still sowing wild oats........leave it alone. The POWER of his profession has overcame his hormones.

Maybe you jumped to the wrong conclusion - it may have been his sister or a female relative, it may have been his ex, it may even have referred to the OPERATING theatre (seeing as how he's a doctor). Don't ignore him when you see him, you worked for him so it would be natural to say hello and ask how things are going. Tell him that you really enjoyed working for him and would love to return if there was ever a chance ... maybe he will let slip about what he thought of you as a result of that.

Just because he's saying nice things to you it doesn't mean "Love", he's just trying to be nice with his secretary. It's everywhere, you just misunderstood the signs.

you could casually ask if he would like to have coffee or a drink to unwind. Be careful--he may be already involved and may just want to fool around. I hate to say this about Drs, but I work with many and even though most of them are dedicate and work hard to care for their pts, when it comes to "women," they think they are "god." Many of them exhibit "Bad behavior" when it comes to dating!

just try him once then make the deccission don't just left him.remember now u have the time once time goes it never comes back.by the way all the best just take one step forward . this decision might make ur life great and loving

If he really wanted to he would have asked you out already. Move on.

make him do the first move
maybe he just wanna play

Go and speak to him - just say Hi - it can't hurt.

It seems to me that you're placing far too much importance on him making polite conversation when you worked with him - I think the weekend and perfume remarks were just him being polite rather than leading on to anything further.

He's obviously already got a female partner so he's unlikely to be looking for someone and as for being in the same place at the same time twice - he's not exactly stalking you!

I would get on with your life, find a guy who likes you and go from there.

give him a flash of your boobs. that always works for me

It appears that he's had plenty of opportunity to ask you out. He hasn't. If he hasn't, he doesn't want to. Marinersfan is on the money with his/her answer. I am sure that there are other successful, attractive, single men who will really want to date you. Good luck.