I am 45 working in office. my new unmarried assistant on one valentine day kissed me what to do now?

she is temporary employee and only 24. she hugs me happily. but avoids sometimes out of fear that someone will see us. i also like her presence with me. need her very close to me.i am maried too.

At this age you should be more responsible than this . why break a marriage for a temp . It is understandable if you have feelings for a person who is drooling over you but you have to be very careful as your marriage is much more important than anything else. Think twice would this help you in the future. Forget that girl. get over with it . She may just be trying to use you to get her job permanent. Be careful

Oops was sounding good until that married part was mentioned. Nothing is worth your marriage.

You are courting disaster. Office romances usually end up with one or both parties getting fired, divorced, or both.

If you're married than you have a problem.If you are not happily married than that is another thing but NEVER, EVER quit a "job" without one lined up! That's what my Dad always says..it's true.

YOU ARE MARRIED shame on you you jack a--

She has a damp, smoldering swamp waiting for you. Your problem is what to do. Bend her over a desk or ignore it. The decision lies in your devotion to your wife and family. Can you have both? No.

Well, the obvious answer is refrain from contact with this person. You are married. If you are not happy, you need to work on your own relationship and stop worrying about this 24 year old tart.

Ok unitil the married part. well if she means business fire her!!!!!! That is something she should be fired over. hello earth to her your married.

move to Utah and keep them both...

you are married... dont take it any further

She ugs so that you may make her permanent either in your office or in your life. Kindley mind your family. A kiss and hug may come and go but not your WIFE. May God forgive you and guide you towards the reality.

Obviously if she fears being seen hugging you it means she knows she shouldn't be doing it.!!!!Some younger women enjoy being able to excite older married men. Do not have anything else to do with her, both you and your wife and family if you have children will end up being hurt if you continue this infatuation.Please don't give all this up for a brief fling.

Avoid, if necessary, by being firm but polite to start with and if need be, bluntly later, and thereafter avoiding privacy with her altogether,to insulate yourself from scandals, disciplinary action, prosecution for sexual harassment of a woman in work place, disruption of family ties and ignominy in the society. Don't give in to temptations caused by such provocative titillations. If the going is bad, the tables will be turned against you, and you will be a big sufferer.
If you value your reputation, and more than this your liberty, cease and desist.

Maybe she's trying to gain some sort of favour from you by showering love and affection on you. First find out what she really wants.Does she really like you or is she just putting up an act to make you want her and do anything for her?
Though I am a woman myself,I wud advise you to be wary of women like ur assistant.You may even end up getting black-mailed.Be careful and always think twice before taking the leap and ditching your wife !

Don't ruin your and your wife's life and stop thinking about her.

leave her alone for bachelors !!!

Its better if u dont dream too much and just be a good friend if possible.....she s of ur daughters age.....u dont create problems in ur family...tats all 4m me...