Do you think can i trust my BF?

i have a BF but he is marryed, has a 2ys son,spanish.
we are living in JAPAN.

he says " i can't divorce now,because of keeping VISA. but i love you the best. "
but he sometimes doesn't answer my telephone. and " i can't always meet you whenever you want cause i have to play with
my son on weekends."he says.

he seem to be fishy ,suspicious.
am i just a person of affair for him?
i can't fully trust him .
what should i do, continue this relationship or break up?

am i thinking too much?

Seriously, I would not even start a relationship with a married man if I were in your shoes at the point of the budding relationship. Films, dramas, novels and true stories have only proven that being a third party to a marriage always end in a negative outcome.

You are being taken advantage as a woman in many aspects that it would cruel of me to mention them here. Unless you are desperate for love, why not give a chance to another single man to love and cherish you over the long term?

If you are keeping hold of your Spanish boyfriend's heart, then I guess I can't persuade you to leave him. Otherwise, do not allow him to hurt you further and empower yourself to leave him swiftly without delay.

dont trust no one. if u got a feeling go with it. investigate n make sure its not called being suspicious its called bein cautious

a b/f that is married wow....ditch him hunny he's using you crazy find a better guy that's not married :( ** can have your undevided attention good luck

first of all he's married. there's a big clue.

if you knew he was married when you got with him, what's different now?

If he is the only man you can be acquainted than you should keep him. If not - and I assume there is one or more males in japan - than kick him out.

you cant trust anyone who is married and cheating on their wife. dont you think that GOd and his wife and his family and friends thought they could trust him when he promised to love and honor that woman for the rest of their lives??? Yes - unfortunetly you are just a mistress for him. Something fun daring and exciting. Dont degrade yourself anymore. Find someone to respect you.

Your not thinking enough he's unfaithful to his wife how can you trust him?

If he cheats with you he will cheat on you. Plus he is married. How would you feel if another woman was seeing your husband? Jut cut your losses and find someone single.

You are not thinking enough.

Your B/F is married? He has a son? He is worried about his visa? Sounds like three strikes and you are out.

You can continue this relationship but I think you could do better.

Break it off with him. You are causing yourself too much headache by messing with a married man. If he can't be faithful and love his wife then how can he do it for you. Go with your gut instinct, never second guess yourself. The first reaction is usually always the best one.

Your the other woman, and most likely his wife doesnt know about you. Im sorry :(

DUMP HIM HE IS MARRIED WITH A KID!!!!!!

SORRY HUN YOUR JUST A BOOTY CALL.







-mel

seems to be fishy or smells fishy???
what are you doing with a married man even if he isnt living with her wait till he divorces her then you may have a bit more trust and faith in him as a person.

You're funny! You have an affair with a married man and then you say YOU can't fully trust him. What you have right now is exactly what you deserve. Nothing. Being treated like a doormat!

i honestly want to say you can trust him. i'm a positive person. but to be honest that is HIGHLY fishy. i don't like the fact he said "i love you the BEST".. even tho he's married.. he shouldn't have to say it that way. it should be "i love you with all of my heart".. that word of best is comparing you. and you don't deserve to be compared. also its like he's trying to convince himself. if he loved you truly you would know and it wouldn't be fishy. just follow your heart, but don't hang on too long if its going to continue that way much longer.