I have a boyfriend I have dated for over a year now and only recently, we started living together.?

When i started dating him, I noticed that he had a lot of friends, both male and female. I didnt really mind at first until I noticed that he had these two female friends who were always calling him. I didnt raise any issue with him because i thought i would be meddling.Later on, I learnt that these two girls knew nothing about each other and about me. However, after i moved in with him, i realised that the problem was bigger. These girls call him often and he has stopped me from ever answering his cell phone for fear that i might answer a call from one of them. These girls even call on the home telephone (landline) and my boyfriend told me not to answer that phone too. This was annoying especially because i pay the bills on that phone. He introduces all his male friends to these girls except me. Everytime he is answering a phone call from them, he locks himself in another room. His male friends are close to me and they also know all about these girls. Help, what is happening?

I think these guy is only living with you but has his heart with someone else. he is only a gold digger who is just interested in your wealth and nothing else otherwise how can you be paying telephone bills and still be forbiden not to answer the phone. I think you should move out if the house isn't yours and if it is, send him packing and move on with your life. I am married and i answer my husband's cell phone not to talk of ordinary land line. Be wise girl!

put yourfoot down mama, if they were just friendshe would not have a problem with you talking to them

He is sleeping with both of these girls and is playing you these girls did not know about you and each other he is pimpin right now has all three of yah ///you are his main girl that he lives with the other two are just the side chicks girl MAN UP grab that phone when it rings and ask questions shitt you LIVE THERE TOO.. when one of these girls call ask them umm who is calling and then ask them what is going on with them and why do they call so much when they ask who are you tell them you are his girl who he lives with DONT be scared of him////How would he like if you did the same thing to him????

It is about time yoy woke up and smelled the roses. He is more than likely involved with these other two girls as well as you. If you don't mind sharing your man; you don't have a problem. If I were you I would have to have a long talk with the boy about trust issues. Your relationship is in trouble if he continues this.

You made a mistake by moving in with him. If they are just his friends, you should be able to answer the phone when they call. I would start answering it anyways, and if he doesn't like it, too bad.