STORY ONE: Is Carlys mom saying that Carly was overweight before and now Carly is skinny or is Carly reading too much into this: STORY : Carly is THIN and A FEW DAYS AGO when Carly came home from work she changed into a tee-shirt but wore the same pants she wore to work. Carlys mom asked her as they sat down to eat if Carly lost weight, and Carly said no, but this upset Carly. Carly said to her mom that her mom always tells Carly she looks beautiful. Her mom said you do look beautiful but your pants look bigger. And she told Carly that Carly is skinny enough.鈥? (OK KEEP IN MIND THAT LAST WEEK WHEN CARLY AND HER MOM WENT TO VISIT CARLY鈥橲 AUNT IN ANOTHER STATE THEY TOOK THE BUS. (CARLYS AUNT GAVE A DESCRIPTION OF CARLY TO THE CAB DRIVER PICKING CARLY AND HER MOM UP AT THE BUS DEPOT BY SAYNG CARLY IS VERY SKINNY. (AND THE LAST TIME THE AUNT SAW CARLY WAS A YEAR AGO.)
STORY TWO: QUESTION I AM ASKING AFTER YOU READ THE STORY IS WHY would SANDY (a chunky girl ) tell MARY (a thin girl who is always told by strangers, relatives, friends she is thin/skinny, looks like a size 4) that Sandy thinks Mary is average and size 8,then pauses and adds in size 10. MARY (who is THE friend I am asking about) IS UPSET AS TO WHY SANDY WOULD SAY WHAT SHE SAID WHEN EVERYONE IS ALWAYS TELLING MARY SHE IS THIN/SKINNY AND SINGLE DIGIT SIZE. HERE IS THE STORY: Mary (very thin) and Sandy (chunky)met in the hallway, Mary told Sandy she got a parking spot right across the street. Sandy said to Mary Exercise. And the reason Sandy said she mentioned exercise because she is concerned about her heart. Mary decided to ask; Sandy do you think I am thin; As Sandy was putting stuff away Sandy replied to Mary; You are average, size 8 paused and added size 10;Mary left and went back to her desk. Four co-workers saw Mary and asked Mary what was wrong Mary told them the story. Her co-workers said to her; Mary you are thin/skinny and cannot be more than a size 4, and not more than 110 pounds. Then Mary said; So why did Sandy say average and size 10 if everyone sees me as skinny/thin size 4;They replied; Sandy is jealous; Do you agree/concur with Marys friends? Here are some things her co-workers and friends said after Sandys remark: Audrey: Mary you are so skinny Billy: Mary you are thin. Jill: No wonder Mary you are so skinny Tom: Mary you cannot weigh more than 100lbs Yvette: Thin I want to feel you Mary Sara: Mary you are thin Petunia: Thin not just saying that you Mary are thin - cannot weigh more than 90lbs Doris: How do you Mary stay so thin and you have to be a size 4; Joanne: Mary you are so thin Leslie: Mary is a thin person Helen: How skinny do you Mary want to be Arlene: He is a big man, however, you Mary I can push Iola: Mary you are very thin
STORY THREE: MY QUESTION: after you read the story: DO you agree with Susan that all Kerry is saying is that Patti is thin with shape STORY: The two players are Kerry and Patti. Kerry and Patti who were having a conversation about many things and then all of a sudden the following happened. Kerry said: Patti I think you are a size 5/6 in clothing, even the temp that works for me said you have to be a 5/6 in clothing. Patti didn't say anything. Kerry said; you have hips, but they are NOT big. Look at my hips, my hips are big yours are not; Patti just listened and didn't say anything.. At 5:00PM as Kerri ,Patti and Susan walked to their cars together Kerry told Patti again that Patti looks like a 5/6 in clothing. Patti asked Susan (a person who witnessed the conversation) Does Kerry think I have big hips; Susan replied; No Kerry does not. Kerry even told you that she doesn't think you have big hips. All Kerry is saying is you are thin with shape. "
STORY FOUR: MY QUESTION after you read the story: Did I give the right answer? STORY: My friend Peggy was out sick for two days in a row with food poisoning. When Peggy came back to work she met Tania by the ladies room at 9AM. Tania said; girl you are skinny, you lost weight. Peggy thought Tania was implying that Tania never thought Peggy was skinny before her two day illness (everyone is always telling Peggy she is skinny - all of her). Anyway around 3PM Peggy was in Tanias office and Peggy asked Tania did Tania think that Peggy still looked sick and does Tania think Peggy look pale. Tania said Peggy you do look pale. Then Peggy said to Tania did Tania think Peggy looks drawn like Tania told Peggy earlier. And Tania said she didnt say that. What Tania said she said was that Peggys face looked like it lost weight and when one isnt smiling and one looks pale their face looks thinner. That night Peggy called me on the telephone and told me the story and asked me was Tania implying that she never thought Peggy was skinny before her two day illness. And I told Peggy that Tania wasnt saying that at all, all Tania said was that Peggys face looked skinnier.
STORY FIVE: MY QUESTION after you read the story:: Do you agree/concur with Ramona's friends that Ramona should not be bent out of shape because the clerk could not see what she looked like due to the fact she was standing behind the partition and all he could see was her neck and face and she was wearing a coat. Ramona and the store clerk are the two people in the story. THERE AREABSOLUTELY NO SECURITY CAMERAS OR MIRRORS. STORY: Ramona came in and purchased her herb tablets. She asked him how much should one take. The clerk said to her that most women should weigh a 160 pounds, however, she weighs a little less so she can take less. The little less bothered her so she asked him to clarify what he thought she weighs he said 130 pounds. She replied you don't even know what I look like and he remarked that I see you come in here; Telling her that he thought she weighed 130 upset her because everyone always tells her that she looks like she weighs 110 or less.Also keep in mind that he wasn't facing her when he said this and there was a partition blocking his view of her so all he saw was her face and neck. When Ramona told her friends the story all of Ramona's friends said she should not be upset because when the clerk made the comment she was standing behind a partition and all he could see was her neck and face and Ramona was wearing a coat. KEEP IN MIND THE FOLLOWING:(1)RAMONA WAS WEARING A COATWHEN SHE CAME INTO THE STORE THAT DAY(2)LATER ON WHEN THECONVERSATION TOOK PLACE SHE WAS STANDING BEHIND A PARTITIONAND ALL THE CLERK COULD SEE WAS HER NECK AND FACE(3KEEPIN MIND EVERY ONE ALWAYS TELLS RAMONA SHE IS THIN/SKINNY ANDWEIGHS NO MORE THAN 110 POUNDS(4)THE CLERK ONLY SAW RAMONA ATOTAL OF FIVE TIMES SPREAD OUT OVER THE YEAR AND EVERY TIME HE SAW HER SHE WAS WEARING A COAT:(5)There are absolutely no cameras or mirrors
STORY SIX: MY QUESTION after you read the story: Do you concur with Colettes friends that Josie only said; Well; in a hesitant voice was because Josie never saw Colette standing, Josie only saw Colette sitting so Josie never realized how thin Colette is. STORY: Colette (who is very thin) went to a coffee shop for lunch and a girl who is there was eating lunch with her brother. The girl who is mentally challenged saw Colette eating a bagel and cream cheese and said; You shouldnt eat that;. The brother explained that his sister just came from a nutrition lecture. Colette told a co-worker the story and said; Do I look fat; The co-worker said; Colette you are very thin.; Later on Colette went to make Xerox copies of a report. Colette was standing on one side of the Xerox machine and Josie on the other and all they could see of one another was from the waist up. Colette and Josie exchanged small talk and then Colette said; Josie do you think I am thin?; Josie hesitantly said; Well, and then decided not to wait to make copies. Colette finished making copies went back to her desk. Late afternoon Colette got up to do something and Josie ran over and said to Colette; I only saw you sitting down, my god you are thin.; Colette that night got together with a few friends and in passing told them what transpired between she and Josie and all Colettes friends said ;the only reason Josie said; Well; in a hesitant voice was because Josie never saw you (Colette) standing she (Josie) only saw you (Colette) sitting so she (Josie) never realized how thin you (Colette) are and she (Josie) even admitted when she (Josie) saw you (Colette) standing that you (Colette) are thin.;
STORY SEVEN: MY QUESTION: after you read the story: Did I give Patricia the right answer. STORY: Today at work an elderly customer asked Patricia if she lost weight and Patricia told her no. The customer said that Patricias face looked like she lost weight, but maybe Patricia was tired. Then as they started to walk toward Patricias coworkers desk the elderly customer told Patricia that Patricia is so skinny. Patricia said to her that that Patricia was always skinny. The elderly customer replied you are like me you lose weight in face but gain in stomach. The stomach part bothered Patricia. Patricia said to the elderly customer that Patricia is skinny everywhere. The elderly customer told Patricia that Patricia is skinny every where. That the elderly customer does not want Patricia to get fat but Patricia should gain five pounds. The elderly customer said that the elderly customers stomach is big since the elderly customer retired. AND THE ELDERLY CUSTOMER THINKS PATRICIA IS SKINNY EVERYWHERE AND EVEN PATRICIAS HANDS ARE TINY. Patricia called me and told me the story and I told her that all the woman is saying that it looked Patricia lost weight in the face and Patricia is skinny everywhere including Patricias stomach, but the elderly lady has a big stomach.
STORY EIGHT: MY QUESTION after you read the story DO you agree with what we said to Lucy? STORY: My friend Lucy was sitting at the dining room table with her cousin Eileen. Eileen turned to Lucy and said: Lucy you are a size 8 in clothes and Lucy replied; Yes I am.鈥? Eileen said: I thought you are a size 8 but I could not remember if you told me you are a size 8 or 10. The next day Lucy told me and few of our other friends what Eileen said and Lucy asked us does my cousin think I am higher than a size 8 and we told her that no that Eileen does not think that at all
STORY NINE: MY QUESTION after you read the story do you agree with Jennifer鈥檚 friends? STORY: Lets say two people (Katie and Jennifer) worship in the same place. However, they really don鈥檛 come in contact with one another in the place of worship or any other place for that matter, but one day they meet in the parking lot in the shopping center in town. And Katie says (in a surprised voice) Jennifer you are so skinny. However, Jennifer is/was always skinny. And when Jennifer told her friends what Katy said her friends said to Jennifer: Katie never looked at you ever so that day in the parking lot she finally saw what you looked like and until that day she never realized how thin you are
STORY TEN: MY QUESTION after you read the story is do you agree with Mimis friends: STORY: Mimi is a size 6 but LOOKS SMALLER and she went to a flea market and a woman was trying to sell a pair of jeans. The woman turned to Mimi and said you are a size 10 ;my daughter is a size 10. That night when Mimi went home she told her friends what the vendor said and her friends said to her: the vendor just wants to sell her jeans, she would say the same thing to a size 2.
STORY ELEVEN What I am trying to ask is: that Patricia is telling Betty look how can I think you have plumb legs when I have never, ever seen them and it was only a dream nothing more. Here is the story again: "I know that Betty is reading into it: KEEP IN MIND IT WAS PATRICIA THAT HAD THE DREAM, NOT BETTY. PATRICIA HAD THE DREAM ABOUT BETTY and a Rock group. MY QUESTION: Can Betty accept the fact that Patricia does not think Betty has plump legs and it was only a dream.? The two players are Patricia and Betty. Betty always wears long wide skirts. Patricia and Betty were having lunch. Patricia told Betty she had a dream about a rock band that she and Betty love. The dream was as follows: Patricia and Betty were on a double date with John and Steve (two of the male rock stars). Patricia was with John and Betty was with Steve. Steve said I only like girls with plump legs and Patricia replied Betty has plumb legs. END OF DREAM. This dream got Betty upset and she asked Patricia are you saying my legs are plump. Patricia said NO I HAVE NEVER SEEN YOUR LEGS AND IT WAS ONLY A DREAM.
STORY:Sharon (age 52/SKINNY AND OBSESSED WITH WEIGHT) was in a place of worship with her mom (age 81) and Sharon's mom said to Sharon that woman's necklace is pretty. Sharon said mom it is ok all it is just a chain. Her mom said no it isn't there are diamonds. But Sharon said it is just a chain. Her mother replied; I never admire jewelry but her necklace is beautiful. This got Sharon upset because Sharon buys beautiful jewelry at a ninety nine cent store but looks like it came from Bloomingdales). Sharon got mad and said to her mom so you don't like my jewelry. Her mom said your jewelry is beautiful but you cannot compare it to the women鈥檚 necklace. Then Sharon said some nasty things outside of the place of worship to her mom . At home her mom said in a nasty voice today you came looking to place of worship like a skeleton, your neck is scrawny, . THEN UP at the house her mother came into Sharon's room and said in an angry tone you have the nerve to tell me to go to h*ll at place of worship. Your neck is scrawny, you have a fat rear end., you fat horse. Sharon then asked her mother about a half hour later when her came back into Sharon鈥檚 room to fight some more mom do you really think that about my rear end. Her mom replied in a angry nasty voice that she does because the mom is convinced Sharon meant all the nasty things Sharon said to her mom so her mom was not going to change her answers. Sharon called a couple of her friends and asked did my mom mean the nasty things she said about me (rear end) and her friends said no people say nasty things they DO NOT mean to someone they are fighting with just to hurt them and no your mom does not think your rear is big. She just said because you are obsessed with weight. My question: Do you agree with what Sharons friends said? My professor wants me as well as the other students in the class to collect as many responses on the Internet (completely anonymous) as we can and then compare the answers to one another and then analyze the answers. It is sort of a way for us to be able to see if we can analyze and help our clients once we practice psychology.
(Each story has a question at the beginning of the story to answer - after you read).
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AND THE PEOPLE WHO TOLD ME: to break it down because they dont want to answer long questions or because they think I will get more responses I dont want to do that because:
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And I hope you will find it in your heart to take the time to answer. thanks STORY ONE: Is Carlys mom saying that Carly was overweight before and now Carly is skinny or is Carly reading too much into this: STORY : MOM IS NOT SAYING CARLY WAS BIG BEFORE. MOTHERS ARE NATURALLY CONCERNED WITH THE HEALTH OF HER CHILDREN. SHE WAS PROBABLY WORRIED THAT CARLY WASN'T EATING PROPERLY AND WAS LOSING MORE WEIGHT OR SHE MIGHT BE HAVING PROBLEMS THINKING SHE IS OVERWEIGHT. IF CARLY IS HAVING AN EATING DISORDER THIS IS CONFIRMED BY THE FACT THAT SHE THINKS HER MOM IS TELLING HER SHE WAS FAT BEFORE. SHE IS READING TO MUCH INTO IT AND NEEDS HELP REALIZING THAT SHE IS HEALTHY AND BEAUTIFUL AS IS AND DOES NOT NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT TO BE BEAUTIFUL.
STORY TWO: QUESTION I AM ASKING AFTER YOU READ THE STORY IS WHY would SANDY (a chunky girl ) tell MARY (a thin girl who is always told by strangers, relatives, friends she is thin/skinny, looks like a size 4) that Sandy thinks Mary is average and size 8,then pauses and adds in size 10. MARY (who is THE friend I am asking about) IS UPSET AS TO WHY SANDY WOULD SAY WHAT SHE SAID WHEN EVERYONE IS ALWAYS TELLING MARY SHE IS THIN/SKINNY AND SINGLE DIGIT SIZE. *********MORE THAN LIKELY SINCE SANDY IS A CHUNKY GIRL SHE IS NO DOUBT INSECURE ABOUT HER OWN WEIGHT. THE FACT THAT SHE DID NOT LOOK MARY IN THE FACE PROVES THAT SHE WAS INSECURE AND JEALOUS AND WANTING TO MAKE MARY FEEL SHE WAS FAT OR NOTHING MORE THAN AVERAGE. IF SHE DID IN FACT THINK MARY WAS A SIZE 10 OR 8 AND WAS NOT JEALOUS SHE WOULD HAVE LOOKED HER IN THE FACE AND EYES AND TOLD HER. BECAUSE SHE DID NOT SHOW MARY HER EYES, IT PROVES THAT SHE WAS INSECURE AND DID NOT WANT MARY TO SEE HER INSECURITY.
STORY THREE: MY QUESTION: after you read the story: DO you agree with Susan that all Kerry is saying is that Patti is thin with shape STORY: KERRY IS SAYING THAT PATTI HAS A WOMANLY FIGURE WHILE STILL BEING THIN. SHE IS REMARKING ON HOW SHE HAS A FIGURE BUT IT IS LARGE. IT IS HER WAY OF SAYING SHE WISHES SHE WAS THIN LIKE PATTI BUT WITH A WOMANLY FIGURE THAT IS APPEALING. SHE IS NOT SAY THAT PATTI IS FAT OR HAS BIG HIPS JUST THAT SHE HAS A GREAT SHAPE TO BE SO THIN.
STORY FOUR: MY QUESTION after you read the story: Did I give the right answer? STORY: TANIA WAS IMPLYING THAT SHE HAD LOST WEIGHT, BUT NOT THAT SHE WASN'T SKINNIER BEFORE. HER REMARK COULD BE SEEN AS SOMETHING HAS HAPPENED TO MAKE HER LOSE WEIGHT, SUCH AS AN ILLNESS. I DON'T THINK TANIA WAS IMPLYING THAT HER FACE LOOKED SMALLER, IF THIS IS WHAT SHE ORIGINALLY INTENDED TO SAY SHE WOULD HAVE SAID YOUR FACE LOOKS THINNIER, ARE YOU WELL? INSTEAD SHE SAID OH, GIRL YOU HAVE LOST WEIGHT. WHICH IMPLIES THAT SHE NOTICED ALL OVER AND THAT THERE MUST HAVE BEEN SOMETHING PHYSICALLY DEMANDING ON HER TO LOSE IT SO NOTICEABLY AND SO QUICKLY.
STORY FIVE: MY QUESTION after you read the story:: Do you agree/concur with Ramona's friends that Ramona should not be bent out of shape because the clerk could not see what she looked like due to the fact she was standing behind the partition and all he could see was her neck and face and she was wearing a coat. Ramona and the store clerk are the two people in the story. THERE AREABSOLUTELY NO SECURITY CAMERAS OR MIRRORS. STORY: *****WHILE THE CLERK ONLY SAW HER FACE AND NECK IT IS POSSIBLE AT OTHER TIMES FOR HIM TO HAVE SEEN HER WALKING AROUND THE STORE OR WALKING UP TO THE COUNTER. SO HE COULD HAVE SEEN HER BELOW NECK. HOWEVER, BECAUSE SHE WAS WEARING A COAT SHE WOULD APPEAR TO BE HEAVIER THAN SHE IS. SHE SHOULDN'T BE UPSET BECAUSE THE CLERK WOULD NOT GET A GOOD LOOK AT HER BODY. IT CAN BE DECIEVING FOR HIM TO LOOK AT ONLY HER FACE BECAUSE HER FACE COULD BE ROUND WHILE SHE IS STILL THIN. SHE SHOULD NOT BE UPSET BY WHAT THE CLERK SAID.
STORY SIX: MY QUESTION after you read the story: Do you concur with Colettes friends that Josie only said; Well; in a hesitant voice was because Josie never saw Colette standing, Josie only saw Colette sitting so Josie never realized how thin Colette is. STORY: I DO CONCURE WITH JOSIE....THOUGH I FIND IT QUITE DIFFICULT TO BELIEVE THAT JOSIE ONLY EVER SAW COLETTE SITTING. SECONDLY EVEN WHEN SITTING IT IS POSSIBLY TO NOTICE THAT SOMEONE IS THIN. THIS SOUNDS SOMEWHAT LIKE AN EXCUSE FOR RUNNING AWAY SO QUICKLY. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU CAN SEE FROM WAIST UP...IT IS POSSIBLE TO SEE THAT THE WAIST IS TINY. THERE IS ANOTHER REASON WHY JOSIE RAN OUT OF THE ROOM. POSSIBLY INSECURE OR DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO RESPOND CORRECTLY.
STORY SEVEN: MY QUESTION: after you read the story: Did I give Patricia the right answer. STORY: THE ELDERLY LADY WAS SAYING THAT PATRICIA PROBABLY ONLY LOSES WEIGHT IN THE FACE AND NO WHERE ELSE. SHE WAS NOT SAYING PATRICIA WAS FAT JUST TRYING TO TELL HER STORY. IN A WAY MAKE AN EXCUSE FOR WHY SHE FEELS SO BIG OR WHY HER STOMACH IS SO ROUND. SHE WANTS PPL TO KNOW IT IS NOT SOMETHING THAT COULD BE HELPED. IT WAS NOT PATRICIA SHE WAS REALLY TALKING ABOUT IT WAS HERSELF AND SHE ONLY MENTIONED PATRICIA SO THAT IT WOULD APPEAR TO BE A COMMONALITY BETWEEN THE TWO RATHER THAN A RANDOM SELFISH APPEARING COMMENT. HOWEVER PATRICIA IS NOT FAT AND SHOULD NOT TAKE IT AS SUCH.
STORY EIGHT: MY QUESTION after you read the story DO you agree with what we said to Lucy? STORY: HER COUSIN DOES NOT THINK SHE IS FAT THOUGH WHEN IT COMES TO CLOTHES IT IS OBVIOUS THAT SHE MAY NOT FIT INTO A SIZE 6 AND THAT SHE WOULD WEAR AROUND AN 8 BUT SHE MIGHT WEAR HER CLOTHES BIGGER. THAT IS WHY SHE MIGHT HAVE SAID AN 8 OR A 10 BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T KNOW HOW LUCY PREFERS HER CLOTHING...LOOSE OR MORE TIGHT...
STORY NINE: MY QUESTION after you read the story do you agree with Jennifer鈥檚 friends? STORY: WELL YES IT IS POSSIBLE THAT SHE NEVER REALLY LOOKED AT HER BUT IT IS ALSO POSSIBLE THAT SHE FORGOT HOW SHE REALLY LOOKED.
STORY TEN: MY QUESTION after you read the story is do you agree with Mimis friends: STORY: IN ALL PROBABILITY THE VENDOR WAS JUST TRYING TO SELL THE JEANS AND DID NOT PAY MUCH ATTENTION TO HER WEIGHT THOUGH THERE IS AN OBVIOUS DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A SIZE 6 AND 10
STORY ELEVEN What I am trying to ask is: that Patricia is telling Betty look how can I think you have plumb legs when I have never, ever seen them and it was only a dream nothing more. Here is the story again: "I know that Betty is reading into it: KEEP IN MIND IT WAS PATRICIA THAT HAD THE DREAM, NOT BETTY. PATRICIA HAD THE DREAM ABOUT BETTY: IT WAS ONLY A DREAM AND NOTHING WAS MEANT BY IT, BUT SUB CONSCIOUSLY SINCE BETTY IS ALWAYS WEARING LONG WIDE SKIRTS SHE COULD THINK BETTY HAS PLUMB LEGS AND THIS CAME OUT IN HER DREAM. BETTY OBVIOUSLY GOT UPSET ABOUT THIS BECAUSE SHE IS EITHER SEFL CONSCIOUS ABOUT HER LEGS OR RELIGIOUS. BUT SINCE SHE WAS UPSET IT IS PROBABLY SHE WAS SELF CONSCIOUS. SHE SHOULD NOT BE OFFENDED AS PATRICIA DOES NOT KNOW WHAT HER LEGS LOOK LIKE
STORY:My question: Do you agree with what Sharons friends said? HER MOM WAS ANGRY SO SHE WOULD SAY THE THINGS THAT WOULD HURT HER THE MOST. HOWEVER THERE IS ALWAYS TRUTH IN WHAT IS SAID IN ANGER SO IF SHE SAID SOMETHING ABOUT HER REAR END SHE WAS EITHER JEALOUS OF IT OR DID THINK IT WAS LARGE. MOST WOMEN NATUARALLY HAVE A BACKSIDE SO SHE SHOULD NOT BE OFFENDED BY WHAT HER MOTHER SAID MAINLY BECAUSE IT WAS SAID IN ANGER AND TO HURT HER. Dam* You have posted this at least 3 times now.Don't you get the hint?
Why can't you break the stories down into one story per question? You might actually get some one to answer. If its points you could have answered most of your questions by now for the same amount of points that you have already used.
For the third time......No way am I going to read all that. too much to read |
