After over 9 years together she's left me, what can I do? PT4?

I personally have done nothing wrong, a smoothy friend who I trusted has now taken her from me. It won't last, because I know what he is like. I entered this post on Friday night (& had some good answers. Thank you.) When we broke up Friday, she openly said that she was a b**ch. also said she will be always at the end of a telephone for my calls, if I want any help. She still loves me still I know. I know from the many answers, you have said find someone else but, she is the one for me; no other person can take her place. They both use the same club as me. The club members would have find out tonight Saturday, that we were no longer together. Everyone knows we are a great couple, but, tonight, she was good at her word. Because she said she would not come into the club tonight, Saturday. I cannot leave this club, being one of the organisers. The man though, likes a Sunday drink; will they come in or not? Answer here and what happens. But, shall I stay, go, or wait for the their chat?

It only seems like she's the only one for you because the pain of loss is so new, time will heal that wound and you will find someone else even more for you. Get some guy friends together, have a few drinks, and regroup after the weekend. Let her go, and if she comes back don't take her back since if she did this once she will do it again, moving on may seem the hardest thing to do right now but you know deep down that is what you need to do.