After over 9 years she's left me, what can I do? PART5?

I personally have done nothing wrong; a smoothy friend who I trusted has now taken her from me. It won't last, because I know what he is like. I entered this post on Friday night (& had some good answers. Thank you.) When we broke up Friday, she openly said that she was a b**ch. also said she will be always at the end of a telephone for my calls, if I want any help. I would love to talk with her to find out what has happened for us to split. She still loves me still I know. The many answers from my similar posts have said I should find someone else, but she is the one for me; no other person can take her place. They both use the same club as me. . Everyone knows we are a great couple. She said she would not come into the club this weekend but they only came in Sunday dinnertime. We had eye contact. The club members asked if I was okay, but never asked what happened to us two. I cannot leave this club, being one of the organisers. How will this end? Shall I make the first move or wait?

DO NT LEAVE YOU LL EVENTUALLY GET OVER IT

It has now been 9 months and she is my soul girl and will have her back at anytime. He has got 2 go before we can get on with our lives. She has completely lost it. Her appearance has gone down hill since. She looks terrible. What he is doing 2 her? I hate to think. Something is wrong I know. Report It

I have no use for any girl that I can not hold her attention.
why would you want to be considered a door matt

If you wish to be a prize fool, a total idiot, a cuckold of a man, then by all means call her. If you want to have a chance at real happiness, take her at her word..she knows what she is better than you do..time wounds all heals, and she certainly is one...along with that friend of yours. You need to be more selective in your friends in the future. Get the divorce, cut your losses, and move on..find a love that is rewarding and meaningful..this one will never be. Sorry to feel this way, and i am the last to advise divorce, but this one has no good values to it. Good luck

what a loser she left you deal with it. If she still loves why is she publicly humiliating you? Just get on with your life and write her off.

You are certainly forgiving more than most men..
were you giving her alot of sex? she might need more Some women do I know i had one the first time who ididnt care and he hurt me alot from not wanting that and it died. Ask yourself how long can you wait? Give her 2 weeks and then rethink again and see if you are still going to wait DONT CALL HER LET HER miss you ok??

don't you dare!! i know love can hurt bad, but this didn't just come out of the blue, believe me, she has been cheating on you for awhile, only time heals wounds, especially this kind, but you have to keep away from her, even from talking to her in order to start the healing process, out of sight !! out of mind !! don't torture yourself !! my heart goes out to you man, and i will pray for your healing.