Tell me your problems...?

Have just posted this as an answer to another question...

I am waiting for Natwest to tell me if I can remortgage - and have been waiting for eight weeks after one mistake after incompetent mistake.

My beloved parrot died at the weekend and now I have no-one and nothing in the house when I come home.

I have a weird telephone stalker who says he's gonna come round and 'rape' me and he knows I am on my own.

The Inland Revenue are after five grand they deemed 'correct' to pay me as tax credits three years ago and now want back.

My ex gives me constant barrages of abuse and has even got 'physical' over what he sees as my 'reluctance' to remortgage when nothing could be further from the truth.

I need a freaking holiday and can't afford it.

I just want some PEACE.

Or someone to help me cope with it all!

So - got anything worse? Make me feel humble...and glad I have MY problems and not YOURS!

Cheers Basketcase - right back atcha babe x

no shame you have it bad, hope things get better for you.

What?

I live in Yorkshire

I'm sorry for your troubles. My problem is that I've been the guardian of my 3 year old grand daughter and now she is back with her parents, which is a good thing and right, but I am very, very sad!!! I miss her so much.

So what about a remortage?

have you got a spare week? It would take that long to tell them

I have a mysterous rash

Chin up hun! It will all end eventually. Stay with us, I'm sure someone here will cheer you up!!! xxx

Goodness you sure do need a holiday girl and I wish I had the money to send you somewhere hot and exotic so you could get away from your worries and woes and chill out as you sure do deserve to, I have no worries but wish I could help you with yours.

No, not going to complain because it seems you have a lot going on..and my problems are small in comparison. I hope things turn around for you quickly!

Wow, I really feel for you. Such alot of cr@p for 1 person to have to deal with.
I'd call the police about your phone stalker though. That must be awful for you.
chin up xx

I need more money and better health. With those two things, I will be practically problem-free.

if i was to tell you my troubles you would end up committing suicide,,

Mailed sweetie.X

Don't think I could really compete with that :

I found my partner dead, tried to revive him. Am now suffering with PTSD, Chronic Grief & Depression. I keep getting flashbacks from then. I have now remembered some really bad memories from childhood, which are now also giving me flashbacks. Can't sleep for having nightmares.
Lost my job, because became to ill to work and have had 2 knee ops in the last 12 months. Too scared to go shopping and in crowds anymore.

Miss my partner and could really do with him here to help me.

:-)))

I've had some cr@p in my life too, so if you need someone to talk to,I'm here or if you just want to b1tch at someone feel free. I hope things work out OK for you !

i thought I'd had it bad this past month, mines nothing in comparrison to yours. I know it feels never ending.
Good Luck and hope it's all sorted soon.

I am sorry...I have a friend who has somewhat huge debts at the moment, & I also have some sociapaths trying to ruin my life (I am going to deal with it though,I am a fighter!!) & although it doesn't amount to yours, it' also very painful....I have decided to say f*** it, what will be will be....
I sometimes listen to these songs which although don't give an answer to the problems, it helps 2 make me feel abit better:

Always Look on the Bright Side of Life Monty Python
Don't Worry,Be Happy by Bobby McFerrin

when life gets too much, you can say this prayer which has helped me tremendously: "Mother & Father God, this problem is too much for me to handle right now, please You deal with it.Thank you" I promise you God will hear you & help you. & ask God to put the white light of the Holy Spirit around you, to absorb any negativity & protect you from harm.

also I don't know if you believe in angels, but i do know they exist & they are there to help us when we need it, becos we're only human & sometimes we take on too much & then we can ask & invoke the angels to help us,they'll come to anyone who asks but they never interfere with our free will & won't help us unless we ask them, all you have to do is say: Angels please help me!" & they'll be instantly by ur side & you can mentally ask them for help with whatever proble you have...you can only try this & find out & u have nothing 2 lose by doing so!

also, whenever I have a problem (as I always do!!), I say this affirmation: " All is well,everything is working out for the highest good of all, only good will come out of this situation, all is well & I am safe." it'll work miracle in your life....

I am so sorry, I wish there was sth more I could do...
xxChoo

PS> have u contacted the CAB for advice about the re-mortgage? they are usually very helpful & might be able to offer some advice.
you can find out ur nearest centre from this link:

hats off for your parrot,got a remedy,go on holiday,oohh sh1t,de-ja-vou,,,,,indy,you have my mobile,withhold your number,and ring...never been a fan of what does not kill ya makes you stronger,here for you and will put down my makita for you.x.if ya lucky..lol...

i was born with testicular cancer. luckely they could save one. i've now been diagnosed with a brain tumour wich i am going through pretty harsh therapy for so hey at least you have your health. not that i would want your problems either.

I have a parrot if Ur interested U can have it.

I normally do not advertise my problems?
thnx

tony is right at least you have your health which is the most important of all all the other things can be overcome hope you get sorted and to tony i will pray for you to get better

I'm with you sister, sorry about Parrott. The answer is simple they all need you to survive. They won't tell you, they will deny you every inch, but when it comes to crunch time they will all go your way. Hold out, give em hell and tell your ex not to be so childish and sort his own affairs out. Join me on a holiday away from hell........

sorry ,but i am fine.

I have a terrible itch. all over. was just out in the garden replanting my strawberry bush and I think I have crawlies on me. yuh. sorry mine is not as bad as yours today. good luck

let me guess, i bet your nickname's lucky isnt it!

I am so sorry you lost your parrot, I would be crazy if I lost mine.to hell with the ex,relax with the revenue, it was their mistake and it took them 3 years, they can take a little each year from your taxes, take a holiday in your mind honey. buy a tape of the ocean waves, a couple of candles that smell like the beach, put on a bikini, spread out a blanket, turn on all the lights, grab your sunglasses and a great book and escape to your own island maybe a little calypso in the background......... enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

An email arrived in bulk folder the other day and it was all in German language and I could'nt understand a word of it. Who would do a cruel thing like that to me.....i'm all British you understand.

I have no problems. I am perfect.