PLEEEEEEZ please PLEASE HELP help me I REALLY NEED HELP?

i have a job offer in kuwait, the salary is 1000KD + 350 acomodation + car + annual tickets + medical insurance.

is this a good salary and can i make some savings out of it? if yes how much??

i also need to know are there beach clubs where women can swin without being offended? how much such a membership cost per month?

what is the general cost of living there like grocery shoping for a month? eating out? shoping in general? water, electricity and telephone bills?

are there houses with the kitchen open to the living room? american system? how much would that cost per month and in wich locations can we find it?

please help me i have to give a dicision in less than 10 days and me and my wife will be moving there.

i am 29 married without children yet

i would really appreciate honest answers for all the above

i appreciate you effort everyone with the information

thanking you in advance

first of all i would like to inform you i am a kuwaiti citizin, a student to be exact. kuwait is a lovely place, an you would be amazed how westernized it is. belive me i have talked to americans and canadians, whom work in kuwait(teaching) they loved it and they said it is their best pportunety ever, and i have asked them for honesty, and not to answer me just cuz i am kuwaiti. and belive me your salary is excelent, 1000 Kd that means it is about 3,423 US$. and yes their are beach clubs, beutiful i am a memeber in "the Kuwait Sport Sea Club." they are even building onther pool olypic size, with a gym inside. prices here are much similar to the states acording to grocery, maybe some what cheaper, at least that what i heard from my teachers. water and electricty aren't very expencive, very Cheap. for the phone bills, if you are subscribe for a house fone all u pay is 30 KWD per month and it is open can call inside kuwait for free. if you buy a cell phone, which every body seem to have from kids to adults, u'll survive. and lots of houses are build american system, but not all out of wood. i say go for it, no body who have come regreted it. there is one thing i have to tell you very important, alcohle is illigel in kuwait, but i hope that won't be a problem. if you love traveling it would be a perfect opportunety cuz u have already traveled more than half the way u would if you wanted to visit a european or asian country. i realy recomend you come. and for the temp. in winter it becomes cold i mean really cold, but doesn't snow, and in summer it gets hot, but that is not a big problem because every where you go AC is on. go for it e-mail me when you get here pal. lovely place if u are conserned about your wife don't worry she can wear whatever she can, drive a car and work just as a man can. and don't forget there are a lot of shopping malls in kuwait, and in the streets you see all types of cars. as i said go for it, and the only thing i will tell you u can't reliy on people who haven't visited kuwait or worked here. kuwait is lovely and i would keep on saying it.

THE PROBLEM IS NOT THAT BAD FOR A MALE IT'S THE FEMALE THAT WOULD HAVE MORE OF A PROBLEM. FIRST FIND OUT IF SHE WOULD HAVE TO COVER HER HEAD AND FACE, SECOND IS SHE ALOUD TO DRIVE A CAR, AND WORK. THEIR ARE A NUMBER OF OTHER THINGS YOU HAVE TO TAKE INTO CONCIDERATION. AND ALL THE THINGS THAT YOU HAVE HERE AND WON'T HAVE OVER THERE. IT'S ONE THING TO SIGHT SEE AND TRAVEL BUT TO LIVE IN ANOTHER COUNTRY IS A WHOLE NEW BALLGAME. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE IN THE USA UNTIL YOU LIVE OUTSIDE OF IT, THATS WHEN YOU FIND OUT.