URGENT ! why is he silent????

Last time, on the telephone, my boy friend askd me sth like " will u marry me?", but not a direct question.
After, I sent him email that I agree to marry him, but it was not a direct answer either.
But since then, I got no reply from him ! What the hell is he thinking? What should I do ?

He was probably just testing to see what you would say....he must be nervous....don't bring it up again unless he does....good luck

well I don't know from experience or anything.. but what I could tell you to do is.. probably give him a bit of time.. maybe he'll respond soon.. if he doesn't try calling him and straightening it out over the phone or in person. because for all you know he may have not checked his email?

Agree with Turtle-girl

scared as well as nervioues in my opion ?

how romantic.

sometimes it amazes me what idiots congregate here. online marriage proposals. and people wonder why 50% of marriges fail, and the other half end in divorce.

Well...being proposed to on the phone andanswering by email is kind of crazy. Just wait it out and see what happens. If he proposes again (hopefully in person) then you will know it is real.

Do you actually know your boyfriend? The way you describe it, you probably shouldn't be marrying this person. He hasn't asked you to marry him in person, and if he didn't directly ask you to marry him, he didn't really ask. Noone can be expected to respond to an implied request on something this life changing, and by not responding face to face and directly to the point, he probably has no idea what's going on.

why was this not face to face? thus is not a question that should be brouth up on the telephone' I would question your very relationship. E mail.... to a will you marry me question what the ****
He calls you to ask you to marry him....you send him a e mail back. ??? wht the fckkk are you doing! get real.

He has cool feet i think or is not sure what he wants. I d let him make the next move. Best of luck

well folks if you read all of this persons questions then you will see that they are a liar. One said that " I am a chinese and my boy friend is a european" then one reads "i am a Chinese. 2 weeks ago, my boy friend in US asked me to come back to USA for him" and then last but not least one states " I am a Japanese" so i dont beleive anything they say. oh and they have been reported also.

*sigh* again, this is the matter between men & women. women wants direct answers but they're not asking direct questions. men asks direct questions but when given direct answers they tend to take it for granted.

this is what relationship is all about.

honey, when the right time comes, u being in love with each other, u go ahead and pop the question. no, not the will-u-marry-me question. ask him if thats what he meant the last time u've talked. i don't think it's too much to ask to clarify. don't be shy, he's ur boyfriend, aight? well, if he said it's not what he asked, then be a sport & jst laugh it off.for sure he won't leave u jst because of that.

best of luck!

Do this, first come to know if he is still alive, second ask him to meet you, third wait for a formal proposal if after this nothing changed LIVE YOUR LIFE WITHOUT HIM. P.S LOOK FOR A MAN THAT WILL NOT GO FOR PREMARITAL SEX. THESE ARE THE MORE SINCERE ONES. Be blessed with a man that will love you forever.

this sounds childish on both your parts... if you are sure you want to marry him talk about it face to face, but i would rather you forget the whole question and email answer thing and wait till he does it properly (consider the possibility that you misunderstood in the first place)...