Question #2 for FEMALES only to answer, please?

Here's the scene: you are walking through the mall with one of your girlfriends. A single guy who is by himself and not with a friend notices you and is attracted to you and wants to meet you and get your number so he can meet you for coffee sometime. The guy is perfectly normal and single - he is NOT a stalker, psycho, or player.

Question: How would you like him to approach you? What would be the nicest or sweetest thing he could say to get you to feel comfortable with him enough to give him your telephone number - without making your friend feel jealous or bad that she was not the one "picked"?

Walk straight to her and tell her you find her attractive and start talking to her to see if she's interest in you. Then end the conversation with "I have to go to a meeting now but if you like to we can meet at later on at "The Coffee Shop" for coffee at this "Time". This way you'll know if she want to get to know you more or if she's going to say no to you straight up.

Just to come up to me and my friends and say "Hi" and just smile and talk. If I was into him too the convo. should come easily.

If she is a true friend she would not worry about not being picked. True friends don't go there with the B*LL SH*T. TFTP's

don't ask for her number write a note and give her yours. Tell her you are attractred to her and would like to meet her in a public place to talk and give her your number. then don't wait for her to call as girls do for guys just be thankful if she does.

i would want them to say....hi my name is so and so and i just noticed you here.i would like to get to know you. and then talk to her dont ask 4 her number so fast. get to know her and when you need to go ask for her number. say it like this. well i have to go can i have your number so we can talk more and be friends

life is short to play games. if she is interested as much as you then it wont matter about her friend not being "picked"

I don't speak to people who approach me in the mall. No exceptions. You're the one who's going to get burned.

talk to the both of us and when we all agree to be friends slowly tell me how u feel or that u would like a date

wait until they are in a shop looking around and they split for a bit then approach her and tell her that she is beautiful and if you could give her a call sometime. That's what one guy did to me once and and I did end up Talking to him later.

Talk to both of the girls first, just friendly. Compliment both of them. Then start moving the conversation over to the one you want to ask out. If you p*ss off her friend, it's no good, so just keep it casual.

I think it would be so sweet for a guy just to approach me and say "excuse me but I couldn't take my eyes off you. I just wanted you to know that you are beautiful and I just had to come over here and meet you." that should be the ticket or something to the effect. She should do the rest. If she's into you she'll offer up a phone number or even a myspace these days. :-P its a lot cuter than "can i get your numba huney!" lol.

I would want him to just come up and approach me. talk, say hi, and compliment me, then walk away. I would come running after him!!!!! don't care bout the girlfriend!

Just walk up like a confident gentleman, smile at the friend as well as her.... and then ask her to have coffee with you sometime. If she says yes, make sure you tell her friend it was nice to meet her before you say goodbye and walk away.

The only faux pas is to ignore the friend while she stands there feeling left out and stupid. You can be a gentleman by greeting her friend as well.

Best Wishes,

Sue

ok... walk up and chat with both ladies, ask how their day is going and what their plans are for the day. Ask them both for a drink, lunch, coffee...something small & casual... if they accept then talk a little further and ask the girl for her number. If they decline then ask the girl if she'd give you her number and you take a "raincheck"... that should work. Good luck

well hi, my names ______ i couldn't help but notice you. can i take you out for a coffee or tea sometime? is always a good place to start not creepy at all. as far as the friend i don't know girls have always been mean to me and people tell me it's cause they're jealous. i don't think theres anything you can do to not make them jealous with out making yourself look like a player or oddly victorian.

Well I think pick up lines don't work at all. I like it when a guy just starts up a normal conversation with me. Just a simple hi and smile. If she says hi back strike up a little convo. If not keep it moving. The thing about the friend make sure you say hi and are nice to her as well but give the girl that you like a little more attention. That way the friend doesn't feel like a third wheel and the girl you are interested see's how sweet you are for being nice to not only her but her friend as well.

find an in such as oh she's ordered something so make a comment. . . hey that's really good i get that all the time, and give her your number don't ask for her's . . . smart girls are usually somewhat uncomfortable giving out their numbers to strangers but if you give her yours she'll feel more comfortable and be more apt to call. . . and as for saying hey i'm attracted to you. . . just tell the truth. . .it doesn't happen that much and the girl will appreciate it. . . pick up lines just give the feeling of hey i wan to get in your pants and are really cheesy. . . and hey as for the friend, not your concern just make sure you don't totally exclude her. . . after all if you end up dating this girl you want her friends to like you!

start by introducing yourself, take her hand & kiss it. offer to cary her bags. be yourself and at hte end of the day if she doesn't give her # she's not worth it
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he'd probably walk up to me and start talking when my girl friend wasn't there. then we'd start talking and after awhile he'd sugest we go get coffee. as long as he wasn't weird.

The only way to break the ice would be for him to walk over to you and smile. You'll probably smile back (you'd be a pretty boring person if you didn't), then you can start talking. And who knows what will happen from there ;)

She will have her head into shopping and talking with her girlfriend. So the first thing you need to do is for her to see you and for eye contact to happen鈥?smile nicely at her. Then a little later, (not to much later of she will think you are a stalker) walk up to her. Don鈥檛 make a lot of hard eye contact鈥?look down a little so you wont seem aggressive and so she wont feel put on the spot to much. Say 鈥渉ey my name is Chris and I noticed you a few minutes ago and I know this is not very conventional鈥?but is there anyway you might have an interest in meeting me for coffee sometime? I can give you my number if that would make you more comfortable?鈥?br>
Don鈥檛 try a stupid cute pick up line鈥?any girl with smarts will see through this. Just be honest and ask :)

Walk toward me with a hot sexy smile that reaches your eyes and tell me that you notice how pretty i look and just be natural. Don't try to act all cool and macho, just be yourself and laugh a lot. Women like men with personality!!!!!!