Weird TTC but showing question.. ?

So, I'm TTC as of like 3 weeks ago.
I guess I *could* be pregnant, but my period isn't due yet.

I haven't even told anyone (except partner & best friend- who lives hours away) that we are TTC..

so, my co-worker asked if I was pregnant the other day, and I looked at him & said, .. "no.. why?" and he's like "well, it just looks like you're lil tummy is growing" (I thought he was a jerk!)

then at an entirely unrelated other job that I work part time, my co-worker that I share an office with said "are you pregnant..?" and I was like WTF?..

I haven't changed my clothing style, I wear the same clothes. So they aren't smaller or anything.
I haven't gained any weight. I've actually lost 3 pounds.
I'm not "fat" my BMI is normal..

but, I guess I'm just wondering .. well, it sounds stupid to ask if you could be showing already.. but WTF? why is everyone saying this? I denied all the pregnancy accusations & then felt fat =(

how early did *you* start to show?

like I said, I haven't told anyone about TTC, or wanting to TTC, and I don't talk about pregnancy at work.. it's not an appropriate place.

I *know* I'm not actually showing yet.

-- and it's not my first pregnancy. It will be my 2nd child, when I become pregnant --

this happened to my cousin she was ttc while we were out shopping i asked if she was she said no she had done a test the day before. i said she was. her tummy didnt look bigger she just looked different. i baught her a test and made he take it in kfc toilets and guess what BFP she was so pleased. so it may not be that you look fat,just different to how you normally do

obviousl you are not showing yet...you dont even know for sure if u are pregnant!
i didnt show until 4 months +

My sister who is due in november is showing now, has been since 7 weeks. That is the earliest i have ever seen in my life. She is small, maybe that is why.

Maybe you are acting different and just don't know it and that is why they are asking you if you are. Maybe you just look happy or something but you can take a test 19 days after the day you think you became pregnant and if you are it will show up.

Good luck

No one shows pregnancy at this early stage. You don't even know if you are pregnant yet, and if you are and its your first, be prepared to barely show till about 5 months or so. I would suggest that your colleagues are rude and inappropriate, and need a few lessons in manners. It may also be that you have been talking about getting pregnant and they are just trying to be encouraging? I hope its the latter. Otherwise, kick their butts.