Why Women Act this way?

Hi,

I hope anyone can help.

When I started my job, there was a girl at work, really nice to me and invited me to a company conference in the city. We took the train and she asked me who cooked dinner for me and I told her my wife did. The next day, she was really mean to me and the next four years, she did not help me at work and complained about me alot.

Another co-worker, I told her about it and she invited me for coffee almost everyday for 3 years and shared private stuff. When her husband started working here and she was pregnent, she hung out less with me. Also when I started hanging out with my female boss, she started to bad-mouth me to the boss.

As for my boss, she started to invited me out for coffee/lunch almost every day for a year. However we didn't agree on stuff and I have a new boss. Now she goes to her office and walks by my cubicle almost everyday, even though it's awkward and a longer route.

Could it be possible these females had feelings for me?

Invited to coffee everyday for three years, she obviously enjoys your company, but she was married thats a situation I would personally not want to be involved in!

Avoid the lure of married women!

It's possible that these females had feelings for you...but you are all adults so iperosnally think the first woman acted childish...its one thing to back off when u find out a man is married, but another to completely change your attitude towared them.....unless of course....you were flirtatious and/or cameon to her and then said you weremarried. Then my friend, i cansee why shewould have been a bi***. Seems like u have many woman friends at work...why is that? like all men..imsureyou just like to be liked by women. hahaha makes sense...but dont get too caught up in it, your married!

Well they find you attractive and when they find out you have a wife..thats a big no no so they try and hate you and stay away from you because if they are nice to you and always around you they will start catching feelings for you and want more.

be friends with men at work. women can be jealous even if they dont like you. its possible they had feelings for you and its possible they didn't but it sounds like you are very involved with the women you work with. stick with the men.