Question about Female Co-Workers?

Hi,

I hope anyone can help.

When I started my job, there was a girl at work, really nice to me and invited me to a company conference in the city. We took the train and she asked me who cooked dinner for me and I told her my wife did. The next day, she was really mean to me and the next four years, she did not help me at work and complained about me alot.

Another co-worker, I told her about it and she invited me for coffee almost everyday for 3 years and shared private stuff. When her husband started working here and she was pregnent, she hung out less with me. Also when I started hanging out with my female boss, she started to bad-mouth me to the boss.

As for my boss, she started to invited me out for coffee/lunch almost every day for a year. However we didn't agree on stuff and I have a new boss. Now she goes to her office and walks by my cubicle almost everyday, even though it's awkward and a longer route.

Could it be possible these females had feelings for me?

Also I don't think I'm that good looking and each of these females took extra steps to get back at me when at work.

Hello dear!
What is happening to you is very clear and you need to be blind not to notice or outrightly naive not to recognise that these women want you one way or the other.

Their feelings are very clear and I advise you as a married man to stop accepting those invitations all of the times from those female colleagues. You are flirting with them and thus encouraging whats happening. You can be nice to all of them but do let the relationship end in the office for your own sake and that of your marriage and especially your job.

Wish you all the best!

You're talking about stuff 4 years ago?

You think too much. When women bad-mouth someone it's because they *don't* like them, not because they do.

Many men forget the aspect of the female. I know females are human beings but so many of us guys look for the hot chicks overlooking other women. I work with women and I am their to help them in any way that I am able. You though are set tripping way too much. Quit it and get real, You seem to be misinterpreting how women come at you. Cut it out and grow up, and if a woman is interested in you she will let you know. Chill out.