Is it love or lust?

I work closely with an attractive woman in my department we actually share an office together. One day we where working on a project and accedentatlly brushed up against her butt. See replied "um that was nice". All of the sudden we where all over each other and we had sex under the desk. We have been working closely for 2 years and both are married with 2 kids. We say nothing about it but agree not to do it there again. I think i have feelings for her but is it love or lust?

Who when i tell her what i feel i should say "I lust you" to my wife.

Hint:
"We are both married and have 2 kids." Its LOVE you sick people she is my wife and we own a company together.....

Lust, no doubt. But let me ask this: have you been watching "romantic comedies" aka "chick flicks" with your wife? If so, that could be the source of confusion.

100% Lust.

If you have to ask... it's lust.

L-U-S-T.. just becoz it can't obviously be love. Mabbe you need to look into your marriage and see why you're dissatisfied enough to cheat on ur wife. It seems like she's in the same situation as you.. there must be sth that she's not satisfied with in her marriage. You found each other to vent the frustration. You both have kids, and cheating on ur wife is definately not a smart move. You need to make a decision whether you want an affair with ur coworker or whether you want ur marriage.

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