First he used to lock eyes and now he ignores me?

Me and my co-worker have shared a long gaze often,about 3 to 4 times,but this last one was intense,since then he started coming near my department often ,first I initated the greetings but then I started avoiding him,he stoped coming,the other day I was siting in the lunch room he came the moment he entered he averted his eyes and too avoided me,After 8 long days,on valentines day I saw him coming twice near my cubicle I didnt see him,I ignored him,but I could sense that he was looking at me.today I was standing in the lobby of our office i saw him coming from far away but he turned back and made the long cut and went to the other side,which made it evident that he was avoiding me.
This is the same guy who always looked at me,locked eyes with me,always looked at me with a smile,greeted me enthuisisacally,did me favours,is he avoiding me b/c I avoided him
or does he also feel that something is developing between us as I feel the vibes

OK Dan so why does one sublimate a real relationship with fantasy any thoughts on that

This is all fantasy. The better question to ask, is why do you sublimate a real relationship with fantasy?

...because right now you find the idea of a real relationship frightening in some way...

Hi Dan
Thanks for all you valuale input,so does my behaviur and his indicate that we are on the verge of starting a realtionship? Report It

You said you started avoiding him first. Obviously, he thought you were uncomfortable around him, so he avoided you. Not looking at you was his way of not confronting you. It's up to you to let him know you're not offended.