Is this a sign of cheating or this is just one case of acute paranoia???

My partner used to share his office email accounts and vice -versa and I can read through his emails but we had quarreled over some of his emails there, whether sent to him or by him. He then changed his password so that I can no longer read his emails, which of course made me angry, because I am not hiding anything from him and he can still check on my emails anytime he wants. Now, he doesn't share much of what's going on at his office and he keeps on saying that it's better that way so that we won't quarrel about his work anymore, but deep down, I don't like what I feel, confused and angry as if, there's something he's hiding from me...I know I should be trusting him, but what if...how do I know the real signs?

I could check my husband's email and vice versa but we don't. There are somethings that we just like to keep to ourselves. That doesn't mean we are doing anything wrong. Maybe your husband just wants something of his own. And if you don't want him checking your emails then change your password. A husband and wife don't have to share everything. Everyone needs something to call their own.

You quarreled over his emails and now you're surprised he won't let you see them? He's not cheating, you just got involved in a negative way and he's trying to avoid more conflict and nastiness from you

I'd keep a sharp eye out for any other "signs". Such as he suddenly starts dressing better, wearing cologne, working out, getting unexplained calls etc. Check, check check, his pockets, his car, his wallet. A person can't be too careful.

If he suddenly changed his password for no reason, you might have a little reason to worry. However, he probably doesn't want to quarrel with you or to have to defend himself over every email he sends & recieves.
If this is the only area of concern in your relationship, you are probably fine and he is likely not cheating.
If you mistrrust him in general and/ or if you have had problems trusting other boyfriends, you should take a serious look at where this is coming from.

U COULD FIGURE OUT HIS PASSWORD JUST PUT HIS USERNAME THEN SAY FORGOT PASSWORD THEN ITLL TELL U WAT TO DO AND U COULD CHECK IT

Change your password,too.

Acute paranoia.
The real signs are b/s so don't worry about that. be more concerned with WHY you need to know every detail of his life. Try trusting him. If you don't he will leave. Maybe not tomorrow, but he will. There is no relationship when you are snooping. And no man wants to feel like a little kid with "mommie dearest" looking over his shoulder and through his wallet.

First have you been hurt by previous relationships? If so you probly are thinking he will do what your ex's did it not true. Now have you secertly cheated on him and you feel so guilty you are thinking he is cheating cause of your infidelity. But, then there could be a chance that he is cheating...
I always went with my gut feeling... You should speak with him let him know how you feel and how what he did has hurt you in more ways than one. Try not being so insecure you might just be reading into it and he is not doing anything wrong but, either way speak to him.. Good Luck

He probably changed his password to avoid further conflicts with you. Rather than focus on his behavior, focus on how your behavior is contributing to the lack of trust.

Sorry to be frank with you but its acute paranoia. Is he your husband or he is only your partner not a husband? You can't even stop a husband from behaving such how much more for just only a partner. If you want to keep him only for you then give him space and let go. Guys don't like to be monitored all the time. Don't push him to the wall. Let go of your insecurities. Keep yourself busy instead. Don't forget to keep fit and live a healthy life. You will never see signs it will just be revealed to you if you continue such behavior. Keep silent. I hope this advise can help. Take good care of you HEART.

well..what i can say is that its just one acute of paranoia....because you should trust what he said and that's what important. if you dont trust him..why go on to relationship??? it's better to end it! people need privacy....and your invading his...even how close you are or you are married,girlfriends even if you have kids...everyone needs privacy of their own. so just respect it. most couple fight because when they mistrust their partners and invade their privacy.