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How do I polietly ask someone to stop a bad habit? |
I share an office with a lady who always picks at her face, causing scabs.. it is really a hideous habit! How do I tell her she would be beauiful if she just stopped marring her skin? You can't "ask" someone to stop something that is a nervous habit. Its like asking someone to stop smoking, chewing their finger nails, or twirling their hair. Most poeple don't even realize they are doing it. Let her be, it is not your face and think how she will receive that bit of info. It will be akward between you. Have her declared a terrorist supporter and they will take her away, then you won't have to see her. Tell her that she's ugly. Tell her to stop picking her face it's going to leave scars! give her notexma and say nothing else Spend time with her and maybe strike up a friendship. Compliment her on a regular basis and build up her confidence. Only after you're friends, the opportunity might come up for her to share with you why she does that to her face. Tell her about the latest makeup that you recently tried and offer to give her a makeover sometime. I think just being nice can be a lot more effective than confronting someone about a gross habit. There's really no polite way to tell someone that her personal habit is destroying her complexion. Polite people don't even notice others' habits, or their skin, unless it is to complement them. Unless you're a close friend (which you say you aren't), you'll just have to suffer your co-worker's habit in well-bred silence. The only real option you have is to try and find something opposite to her habit to complement. Let it go!! |
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