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There's this girl who works in my office. We go and come back from office together.Also we are normally talking or sharing emails every 15 minutes in the office.After office also we used to talk and sms almost everyday.Recently a common friend asked me Do you have any feelings for her. I told her yes i do however i am not sure that she might like someone else so would like to wait some time, so that i do not hurt ending her and myself.
Now i don't know what happened since yesterday she is not responding to my sms's. My mind is going crazy as i am not sure what happened. Please help me understand what's happening as don't want to loose her like this. I even sent her an apology message thinking that i might have said or done something wrong but no response.Please try and respond as i think i am loosing it all. She's really sweet and i do not want to leave her or do not give a try back in case something has went wrong, but confused as to what has happened and how to get things fixed.

Go talk to her and be honest about how you feel..........

Ok...chill out, there is probably a reason she wasn't replying to you, she may have been out with her friends, or had a family emergency, or her battery died, or she lost her phone, left it at the office, in her car, at home (when she wasn't there). There are a million reasons why she didn't answer you, ask her why on monday, and stop freaking out.

well i dont think you did anything wrong.
Just talk to her. let your feelings out.
when you do u well feel tons better.

dont trip man,just talk to her,dont let there be this much that u dont know about ur relationship,if u really like her just hit her up and tell her how u feel,ud be surprised at how much that can do

****! i hate these common friends..! go to her directly and ask her wats wrong! if she asks u nythin tell her the truth, tell her that u love her and will continue to love her till ur death!
its a game she is playin which is known as hard to get! she has done this so tht she is the one on ur mind 24/7 gettin me? if she doesnt talks to u directly ignore her and get her off ur mind!

the worst thing you could do is sound absessed...so just dont get tooo carried away...call her and dont be affrade to talk about it with her.

i know this is not the longest reply ever and its probably not the answer you are looking for, but you need to TALK to her in person. She will probably tell you what is the matter. If you have to just explain that you do indeed like her and you hope y'all can stay friends beacause you have no i dea what is going on.

Possibly overreacting. This is why you don't tell the common friend anything. You tell the person who you like how you feel. How about slowing down and give her time to respond. Don't say anything unless she says something. Chill out!

well .. leme tell u one thing .. sendin emails n sms every 15 mins jus gets kinda boring after sometime .. i say u need to give the a girl a little room .. not jus physically ... but mentally ... let her know your there .. but dont be in her way ... and who knows .. maybe she had some family problem or some personal thing thats bothering her and she just wasnt in da mood for a bit ... so ... be patient .. but not too much .. take a lill time .. and when u think she commin back to her regular self .. ask her to go out with u for a lill coffee or somethin .. have a lill chat .. n let her know how u feel .. n let her know that ur there when shes ready ..

so well the rest is upto you ... jus go with the flow ... and dont ever think that what ur about to say might be stupid .. just say it ... ull know afterwards lol .... if she does like u .. she will never back away :-) .. cheers

OK! Whatever you do DON'T PANIC!!!!!
Well, at least don't panic anymore than you already have.
Obviously you really do have feelings for this girl, or you wouldn't be in the state you are in at the moment.

You have made a series of assumtions that may not be based on fact.
1) You assumed that the common friend talked to her about your stated feelings for her (may not have happened)
2) You are assuming that her not communicating with you FOR ONLY ONE DAY, means something to do with you (it may not be about you) plus you are assuming that it is bad.
3) You assumed that the situation required an appology from you before you even understood if you did anything wrong.

I suggest that you seek her out & calmly ask her if you can speak with her & I stress CALMLY!
There may be nothing to fix with her. Just tell her you became concerned when she failed to respond to your sms as quickly as she normally does.
But to be perfectly frank about it, you seem to be a whole lot of desperate, & needy. She may get spooked from that so try to calm down.

Chill ;-)

Sounds to me like this "common friend" you talked to may have spilled the beans, and told her how you feel, and now she doesn't know how to react, maybe? Or maybe she is shutting you out because she doesn't feel the same?

It sounds as though you're pretty desperate--maybe that is coming through in your messages to her. E-mailing each other every fifteen minutes or so? Good Lord, that's a lot! How do you get any work done?

My advice would be to lay off, and leave her alone for a while. She might have something going on in her personal life that has nothing to do with you. If she still hasn't talked to you in a few days, either write her off (You've made it clear that you want to talk to her, and she has ignored you), or maybe invite her to lunch to see if she wants to talk things over.

Also? Your grammar and punctuation is awful--it was hard to get through this plea for help and decipher what your problem is. You might get more of a response from others if it was easier to understand. =) Good luck.

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