Was she a true friend?

Her name is Ruby, she's married to the father of my two boys.
We became good friends for about 8 months. She came to me with her sad, sad stories of how she and her husband struggle financially. With that in mind, I layed off the child support enforcement. I became wise and after she shared with me about a family vacation to Disney world and a planned sweet 16 for her daughter. (not his) I thought, maybe she was lieing about the financial situation. I went in last week to the child support office and was told he was going to be picked up. Did I do the right thing here by going in to the office or should have I believed her as being a good friend. I informed her that she might be picked up and I have not heard from her lately.
Was she being a friend or was she befriending me to have me lay off the child support????????

I meant to say, that He not she was going to be picked up for delinquency on his child support. She has emailed me yesterday and wants to keep the "friendship". I still don't know if I should trust her?

Sounds to me like maybe she was just trying to get you to lay off the child support. I mean if she can afford to go to Disney which is expensive and a sweet 16 for her daughter which can be expensive then finances aren't that bad and why should your kids suffer so her's can have. No way your kids deserve their child support and I would get it. You did the right thing. He needs to pay. I wouldn't trust her as far as I could throw her. If you want to keep your friendship that's fine but I would always keep one eye open. Good Luck......

first off why would you be friends with your exs new wife.... and to call her a friend... wake up dear and smell the coffee.

she played you for a fool, and I am sorry. Of course you did the right thing. They both deserve to be in jail. They scammed you so they could to disney world.

Did your two boys get to go with on the trip?

Saying how difficult it was and then going to disneyland and having a sweet 16 for her daugther. There is a chance she was befriending you to have you lay off the child support. Go with your sense's.

She was never your friend. Haven't you ever heard the saying, "keep your friends close and your enemies closer". That's what she was doing. You did the right thing! Don't second guess yourself. You don't need friends like that.

This is easy. She definitely is not a friend. She is the pawn of your ex. They want more money for themselves and your ex does not want to live up to his responsibilities. Use the courts and make him pay. It's his obligation.

Well your first lessen is to never believe the wife of your ex husband. I know they may seem nice and friendly, and you want to get on their good side especially if your kids are in their care. But that's not always how it works out. Nobody here has the answer to your last question unfortunately. And you did do the right thing. You need to fight for yourself and not worry about her. Good job. :)

You did the right thing i mean you go stop the child support and then she turns around talking about disneyland and a sweet16 party and the kid's not yours. hell no you did the right thing because all she was doing was taking advantage of you so you did the right thing .

that ***** i wouldnt be her friend but how should i know im only 13

Hell No.