Is it right to accept it at once?

I was engaged to this man, and we were to get married, and two weeks only left to the marriage, and he ran off with some other, and they shared an STD.
We never quarrelled and he called me that evening and e-mailed,
discussing the wedding. The next morning I got the e-mail which said that he did not want us to be together, and how we was with that other one.
I called him back, and he did not switched on to the voice mail and
never picked up but let me call and then turned off, and then again.
Later I found out that he was sitting at his office with her and some
others, laughing and that the other one said: "How clingy she is. Why does she call you?"
They never told me about the STDs (they have three at once), again, later I found out, and I had none.
And the other one went around spreading rumours about me, and calling me a "crazy one", and so on (I have never seen her or talked to her in my life).

So, I thought: am I really clingy? Was it not normal to call after what happened? or should I just accept it and never try to call him for explanations and e-mail him?
And I wanted to take her to court for spreading STDs and not telling
anyone (she begged him not to go to doctors and treated him and herself). Then, again, maybe I just should let it go?
I am so confused.

Let it go! Count your blessings. I know it may not seem like it now, but, really, you're so much better off without him. Any man who could do something like this is doing you a favor by removing himself from your life. Seriously, you lucked out. There's nothing wrong with you trying to call him and get an explanation, but at some point you just have to say "enough's enough". Don't listen to what others say about you; you are your own person, be above this bullsh1t. If he is a coward and a jerk, there really isn't much you can do about it. What he's done makes HIM look like an idiot - not you. Drop him like a bad habit - he really isn't worth your time. Good luck.

he's obviously not worth it so forget about him and get on with your life...thank god for finding out before the wedding and for not catching the std's!!

I think the best thing that you can do is be thankful you didn't catch anything and just move on. I cannot tell you to forget about it because you never will. Be thankful that this happened BEFORE you got married! He obviously does not respect you and she is a *****! I would cut my losses and move on as hard as it would be. Good luck!

Get out of the relationship. It takes a real low life to put your calls on speaker phone and let others listen. Consider yourself fortunate that you found out in time. Good luck.

The guy is a scum bag jerk, you might be hurting & probably are embarrassed, but count your blessings that you did not marry him. Move on with your life & make the best of it. He will be miserable & not even understand why...it's cuz he is a jerk. I once jumped into an engagement & he dumped me...I felt horrible, I was hurt & embarrassed that I could be so dumb, what was wrong with me, he married someone else, they stayed married less than 1 yr. It was a bad marriage, he then married someone else...whatever...anyway I married a fabulous guy, who is so incredibly perfect for me. I am so glad the previous guy dumped me. You are meant for better things, better people. Go out & celebrate.

my god, he is really not worth it. he even let his friends say u r clingy!!!but he didnt have a word on this. how pathetic he is!mawkish! ignore him forever if i were u. move on, there are many nice men in the future!

sorry been walking in your shoes once but a little different,shut down from one side is hurtful hold on and u aint clingy just focus on yourself anfd your life and when u spit something it means it no good dont try taking it back in your mouth its damged goods