Is it okay to fall in love with your officemate?

Okay, I've known this guy for more than a year. We were not close then coz he has other set of friends and I have my own friends too but when our friends left the office to find other opportunities, we found a company to one each other.

We're so close that we shared almost everything, we go to mall together, chat together, etc. I'm happy when he's around.

Then came the worsiest day of my life, we had and argument and he said that he doesn't want to talk to me ever again. That's when I realized I was in loved with him.

Note: He's gay and he has a boyfriend. He's too much in love with this guy..

Could someone help me please... I don't know what to do. I've never felt like this before. He's my first love.

Love him why not, but reality check pls! mustn't be romantic type of love! or you'd forever be hopeless. Difficult, but guess we simply have to respect the man's need for another man. Right? Cry it out, and then move on please :)

Hon, there's nothing you can do. He's gay. He's taken. You're co-workers. Three strikes. Just find a straight guy outside the office to date and MOVE ON.

no you don't love him you just miss his happy, gay ways find your self another gay friend or girlfriends and you will forget him, he is gay for god's sake, he does not like a relationship with womenkind he likes men.

He's gay; you're not. You can't allow yourself to fall in love with him whether or not he's your officemate. That part is irrelevant. His being gay is relevant.

there is no such rule to whom you will fall in love..
but to gays.. its impossible..