I am husband of your sister. So how can I help you?

It is about four years since I married. 3 months ago my wife sister told me that she has felt in love with me so that she urged me to share her love. I was shocked and told that it is completely imposible to love me as it is ethically, culturally and socially forbiden. However, she is still forced me to share her love including sex. Yestarday she come to my office and told me that she can not forget it and if I will not cooperate him she dicided to have another action including misinforming my wife and forced her to divorce. I love my wife very much and I don't want to have divoce. I you were me what you do? I want quick responses from both male and female. I am waiting for you now

That's quite a situation you have going there...

Seems like from the way this Question is phrased that you let go of that shock, and the ethical, cultural, and social thinking the moment you decided to have sex with her..(you shouldn't have let your penis guide you)

You shouldn't have had sex with your sister-in-law, but she didn't FORCE you to, you chose to. BAD CHOICE..but still it was your choice, your choice to keep the sister-in-laws behavior away from your wife, your choice to follow up with your sister-in-laws feelings for you, and your choice to sleep with her...(You have to be aware that you ARE at fault here)

Misinforming your wife about what?..Unless you just phrased this whole question funny and you DIDN'T have sex with your sister-in-law.. then how can she be misinforming your wife?

If I was your wife? I would want to hear that you were drugged and incapacitated to make your own descisions in order for this to happen and NOT be your fault, otherwise I would probably be incredibly hurt, and unforgiving at first, and I wouldn't trust you anymore that for certain.. so if I wanted to save the marriage, I would go to counceling with you and try to work it out...but I definately would never let you have any alone time with my sister again!!!!!

AND MOST IMPORTANT.. Tell your wife Before her sister does... Something this bad in your marriage should be told by you...

You need to talk with your wife and explain the problem and leave her deal with her sister

Keep away from the sister what ever you do. Just tell her NO.

you are not in trouble yet, unless you've committed to it. talk to your wife about it. or, you can just ignore it.

Well i don't know how she forced you into doing this, but what you need to do now is play her bluff and go with her to your wife and tell her the truth and the whole story.If you want to keep her this is the only way,as your sister inlaw will hold this against you for life.Do it now and get her out of your life.

She didn't force you to do anything, stop blaming her, stand up and be a man, tell her where to get off!

Tell your wife and let her confront her sister!

Oh, I feel so sorry for you. What you must be going through!

Please be informed that a person cannot control falling in love. This is something that happens. But a person can control what she/he does about it.

You say that she forced you to share her love including sex.

WHAT DID SHE DO?
DID SHE PUT A GUN ON YOUR HEAD?
DID SHE THREATEN TO KILL YOUR FAMILY?
DID SHE THREATEN TO CUT OFF YOUR PENIS AND TESTICLES?
DID SHE THREATEN TO MAKE YOU EAT THEM AFTER CUTTING THEM?

If the above didn't happen, I simply cannot understand how she forced you.

You love your wife?

I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW YOU CAN LOVE YOUR WIFE AND CHEAT ON HER!!!!!!!

IS THAT CONSIDERED LOVE IN YOUR COUNTRY?

HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF YOUR WIFE CHEATED WITH YOUR BROTHER?

Did you really think that I felt sorry for you? Think again!