Is he into me?? GUYS please respond.?

I have this crush at work....he used to flirt alot, but now we talk about cool work-related stuff "as friends", and some jokes, and happy hour stuff....we send emails and some fun quick calls...stuff like that. He is 27, and new to the area about 4 months ago. Whenever I am near where he sits, I can see that he stares at me, even when he's with his work team, but when I come by to talk, he is friendly, but not flirty. (maybe he is trying to be more professional near his buddies?). We've had "happy hour" together, and had a great time, but when i ask if he wants to go have a drink, he says "i can't because____but says definitely another time. He DOES find some time to come by and talk to me, and isn't into other girls in the office. He tells me lots of personal family stuff, and we share work confidences, but I'm 13 years older than he is. I know he likes to check out my boobs, but I'm a thick girl, and he's got an athletic body, so I don't think he's into my chubbiness. Whats up???

Is it desperate if I ask him for a drink (yet again) and risk a "no, I cant tonight but another time" as I've gotten in the past? If he likes hanging with me, and I picked up some tequila for us the other day, and said "hey lets have a drink after your Friday meeting...and he said "you got it"...but then isn't really responding to me today...is he just a normal guy or is he trying to just keep me slightly on edge for games?

sounds like you are just a friendly chick to him. i'm 24 and if i were in his situation i'd be the same way. he may think that you are too old to have kids or something and not want to get attached in that way. a lot of guys think it is bad to date co workers. he may think this to. it can really hurt a professional atmosphere if things go sour. then again i could be completely off the mark here and he just doesnt know how to ask you out. he is 27 though so i dont think that is the case.

Try playing hard to get.