Is she playing with my emotions?

There is a girl in my office...we went to US together and became very good friends...when we came back after 2 months she started calling me daily in office, after office hrs(till the time she reaches her home), on weekends...and we chat atleast for an hour on daily basis...she shares everything with me...BUT when i proposed her on Valentines day, she refused and told me we are just good friends and she she dont want to loose a friend like me.
A week after the above incidence we started talking to each other...and things are again the same...she calls me daily after office hrs till the time she reaches home. I told her i am looking for a girl for marriage and she is least bothered. And she knows that i am still interested in her.

I am not able to understand if she is not interested in me then why the hell she calls me and that too on daily basis and we r chatting for hrs......is she just doing time pass and playing with my emotions and making a fool out of me??? What shud i do???

She said it too you already. You are just her "friend" it doesn't matter what sex you are. You are as good as a girl to her. You are her emotional support. But you never ever will be her boyfriend husband or anything else. She doesn't see you in a sexual way at all. You will never really have her. You just get to help her with her emotions. If you want more now you likely always will and this is just hruting you. Drop her and don't talk to her for at least 2 months or more. If she would ever want more she will agree to go out, but it won't happen my friend. She doesn't see you in a sexual way and never will. And this relationship is keeping you from finding real love. Either drop her completely or at the very least start datin alot. Get her to fix you up with her friends, get out there and get over her because this is no good for you.

ALL you are is friends!!!

Women are like that sorry!!

cause she is alone and wants to talk to someone. Don't be so available. In fact, make sure you tell her. "Gotta get ready, going out on a date tonight, can I call you tomorrow?". Don't let her make you a girlfriend.

Did you ask HER this? Did you tell her that it bothers you what she is doing? If she is not interested in you romantically, see what she does if you go out on a date with someone else. If she doesn't seem the least bit bothered by it, she truly does just want to be your friend. If she IS bothered by it, then she is full of sh*t and needs to either make your relationship official or leave you alone.
My humble opinion.

She is not interested in you for a boyfriend, and is using you to pass her time. Does she asks you questions about tips for dating other guy? If so that is even worse. When she calls you, tell her you are busy with work and can't talk. Play hard to get, and if she comes back romantically interested in you, then it worked. If not, let the girl go that just wants to be friends with you. She is not what you are looking for.

Stop talking to her dude. She is wasting your time and she will waste more and more if you don't set any boundaries. Nothing but an attention hog and a flirt.

Yes, she is playing with you! Girls enjoy that. They think they have control and you should get the ball back in your court as soon as possible. Two words...." MAN UP" and go for someone else that deserves you. Trust me you are just wasting your time.

Mate I know its not the same, but I know how you feel. A girl i want to go out with, tells me she likes me as a 'bf and a mate' but doesnt know which category I fit into, and I got some advice and thats this:

She is messing with your head. Tell her straight does she like you more than a friend and could u ever be together. She probably likes the attention from you and needs someone to conspire with and share her feelings. She probably seems like shes playing with your emotions but maybe its because she just wants attention from a sympatic guy and nothing more.

I think its time to ask her how she truly feels in order to resolve your problems, don't stay in the dark. Or you could live for months trying to get her to like you or even marry you without her consent for a proper relationship between you both.

Hope This Helps Mate;) Good luck.

It sounds like she either isn't ready to go any further then friends, or you're just friends and nothing more. Best friends maybe. Friends can talk for hours at a time, too. Then again, maybe she DOES like you more then a friend, but she doesn't want to admit it, or she isn't quite ready to get married or anything just yet. Give her some time and see where it goes.

You could also randomly bring up about this girl you've seen lately and how you're really into her and see how she reacts. If she seems jealous, she's into you. If she tells you to go for it though, she's just a friend and thats it.

hello;The first thing that i would ask you is how old is she,and how old are you.The reason for this is , this could be the problem.Usally when a girl refuses to mary a man after knowing him for along period,for the reason that you have discribed it means that your a really good gut to have for someone to talk to,but not to mary as she does not look at you in that way.Personally i think as for as seeking a possiable wife i would keep looking.She aparently does not share these feeling's with you,but if you choose you can still be someone she can lean on,yet i wouldn't let it go any farther than that unless you want to get hurt.

Dont be stupid stay friends only and get on with your life could be a good friend trust me in many ways friend.ONLY FRIENDS