Ladies have you ever dated a man that totally loved you, pampered you?

did he do things like lil surprises, special notes or pics in your purse or car? visits your office,takes you to lunch/shopping? (how often) sends flowers to the office when you having bad daze, good daze, holidaze? ;o) just because Luvdaze? not overblown, very thoughtful considerate "think of me, as i am always thinkn of you". did or does he let you share a PDA, or do you have to tell him to stop! you say ppl are noticing he says who, with a look so intense you know he sees you only.

bathed you, moisturised you afterward with full body massages. had a drink and snack tray ready to feed you as he indulged your senses. he did this for you, and he loved you doing so for him the same. can you crawl on his back nude, give him an erotic massage and not lead into sex ( atleast not always ;o) "i am man, after all"! pillow fights, late nights, all weekend in bed or on the sofa. do you have this one, are you enjoying him have you lost him or did you kick him to the curb...

yes i know its so, too. aholes get better treatment from women. than anyone who treats them as they should be. not to be confused with treated as they want to be .
(spankns are good!)
dont confuse the things here as im saying them being done all the time. i am saying he "treats" you. shows you youre cherished and i do mean with a man youre in love with. not just shacked up with. office visits once a month, he keeps his eyes on guys hitting on you while scoping out other ladies. lol only bc you didnt apreci8 a lil loving attention :o)~ I DO know no matter what a woman says she wants, it isn as she says...she wants. you think as a man I want hmm Js all day 24/7...lost my thought, like any relationship you have to keep the fires burning, definitely not boring
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YES, YES and YES. Unfortunately a woman has to be with a "let's see how bad I can treat you and what physical, emotional and mental abuse I can cause"-man before she fully appreciates the guy you've described.

After six years I'm still with my 'love you to death' man even though I now mostly have to ask for the special treatment. The outcome of his love was marriage, even though I said I'd never marry anyone.

Just know that there's a thin line between loving someone and annoying them or obsessing. MOst women would be rather wary of someone who does ALL that, not just because it could get boring or, a person could come to expect the treatment and if one little part of it's not there, freak out! but it is also rather scary as you wonder about being stalked!

yeah, but i got bored of him.

No. Sounds like you're describing a gay guy.

yes, i was with him for 2 years

no

uhmmm...NO!

Yes i have. As far as i know he's still single. Makes you look desperate. I couldn't stand it, he was sooooo nice that it drove me crazy. Made me feel inferior and made me long for the "bad boys". If you want to keep a woman then you better give her a little excitement. If not, you too will be thrown to the curb.

wow , guys like that seem like a fantasy but really they are just annoying , they seem obsessed with the one person and doesnt have a life of their own , its a nightmare , the people that like guys like that are probably narcissists or something to want them and everything..

Wow. You've put a lot of thought into this, haven't you? Anywho, I hope this person you're describing doesn't do this ALL the time. That would get old really fast. I do have someone similar to that, though not as much of a sap as all that. Thank God it he doesn't do ALL this stuff ALL the time. Like I said, it would get old really fast. I would also have to question his sexuality, too. Not to be sarcastic or anything, but it would pop into my head every now and again. I like my man to be manly, too.

No. If i get one will keep him forever

yes, my partner for 6 years now has showered me with so much love , teach me so many things about life , feed me with new knowledge about science and computers and geography and everything under the sun. Maybe he does not pamper me with so much sex , but sex after 6 years is stil great and wonderful. He also brought me to many places i have not been visited and in those trips, i gain so much knowledge, watching movies together and train rides were all great form of pampering

I have had this man, but turns out he was gay. Really. LOL

Now I have a man who goes to work every day, comes home smelling of paint and cleaning solvents, kicks his shoes off in the middle of my living room floor, throws wet towels in the floor, leaves the toilet seat up, farts, burps in public, and can't function properly without detailed directions from me...

... and I'm the happiest I've ever been, beause he's real and he's sincere. In the midst of all of these things, sometimes I get that look from him, or he touches my cheek to let me know he's still in love with me. He tells me he loves me about 20 times a day, and I know he means it.

The reason I love this man so much is despite his imperfections, he works his butt off so I can stay home and take care of our children, being the mother I always dreamed I would be.

Seven years of togetherness, six years of marriage, five years of parenting, and I'm more in love with him now than ever...

because

he

is

real.

:)

Yes and and I miss him very much

Dr Spock, i like your Avatar. Are you from Star Trek, remember Billyboy!

I still have that man. Grant it... It's not as much as it use to be, but it is still there. With work & all there just isn't much time to really enjoy each other anymore. But that will change soon. I'm changing jibs so that I'm off on the week-ends again. Then the fun will start again. Him & I have recently had this talk. So... Let the fun begin again. And NO he's not gay !!! He just loves me dearly, not queerly. His family says that he was never like this with anyone else. We have been together 6 1/2 yrs now. Good Luck ladies... Their out there...keep looking.

i never met such creature alive........ is that really come from earth?is it delicious?

yes.. but eventually i got bored.. a too nice and too sensitive guy somehow turns out to be more of a pain than anything else

I WISH! where is he, I take one, my car is in aisle 3!

Just for your information i AM that guy

I have a man that was close when we first started dating. But then again the honeymoon is over...(sigh)

yeah but it got old really quick. i knew everytime he come to see exactly what was going to happened.