How can I add my exwife's insurance to her acct. for our kids dental, in addition, to my dental ins. in use?

She uses my dental coverage as primary. She doesn't use hers, but I know it is effective. She maybe filing without my knowledge and pocketing the extra I pay due to the lack of her using it as a secondary through the dental office. I believe she is paying then submitting the bill to her insurance on her own for reimbursement. For example, if my insur. covers a 3rd of the cost, we have been splitting the remainer with me sending her my share of the bill. Whereas, if she has her insur. too, she submits the bill for her 3rd it would cover too. So, how do I find out for sure if she is filing claims or have it added to her dental account for our kids? Thanks and BTW I am not a deadbeat dad. I think she has been scamming me like this for a long time and I have just naively sent her checks for the medical and dental bills. Things have gone smooth for her until I decided to mail the money directly to the dental office and then they started calling because I had overpaid. So now what do I do?

Talk to an insurance agent. They usually don't charge for consultation. And your policies with have specific limitations.

I think you could call your insurance company and have a read out on all the copay and bills have it sent to you in the mail. I would than tell them you are taking her off your insurance. Than I would also go to http://www.freecreditreport.com See If there are any other bills your ex wife is sticking you with. Your kids are one thing but your ex wife needs to take care of herself. If you have any problems or concerns that your ex wife is scamming you, you can also file a report at http://www.ripoffreport.com and tell your side of the story. No one likes to get ripped off. Its not only for businesses its also to file bad people.