Help....losing trust in a friend, fast!?

5 years ago I worked in an office & became best friends with my co-worker. We went through a lot together,and kept each others secrets from boss and others. When I felt I had to move on, we remained good friends, and went out for drinks, etc. I have gone through yet another job change.This time, she got me a job at another office, for the same company, but for a different salesman. Well, we still see each other and hang out. But the problem is, I told her something about my new job, she told my old boss, and he called my new boss to complain about me and what I said.Now, my boss doesn't want me sharing too much info with my friend anymore, for obvious reasons.I sort of laid down the saw with my friend, and she understood.Well, now, she doesn't want to tell me anything about her work either....in case it gets back through my boss to hers. I wasn't the one who was untrustworthy to begin with. But, whatever. So be it. But what are we going to talk about now that we can talk? Its weird.

You and your friend did nothing wrong - it is the bosses that are uptight and paranoid about the situation. You should unite with your friend to agree to tell each other everything (well almost everything) and not tell the uptight bosses anything.

Good luck!!

if she was really your friend you wouldnt need help from yahoo.

Let it go girl. If the only thing you two have in common is your work bond and all you ever really talk about is work ... well it looks like your relationship is kaput! How you have a friend that can only talk about work and she screws it all up and expects to still hang out. What are you guys gonna do? Admire one anothers breathing techniques? Dump the snitch!

Maybe it's time to cut back for a while. Was all you ever talked about centered around work? There are more things to discuss. Your love life, kids if you have them, shopping, what your doing. Maybe the two of you should take a class together just so you have something else in common. It will be weird for a while, and I'm sure she's feeling worst than you as she's the one who shot off her mouth. She's been a good friend and even helped get you a job. You can still take about other people you know. It's called gossip.

I think that you need to take a step back. You are focused on one friendship and you should be looking for others. I will say that you two need to talk about how you feel and listen to her about how she feels. I would not call it quits.