Is she bi or Les?What does she want from me?

I just meet a girl two weeks back at work, we got on really well, as i was thinking about dating her, she told me she is a lesbo, but however we flirt alot (getting so phsyical...eg touching) and spend heaps of time during breaks and lunch...we walked around so close everytime and often bum into each other. At the same time she always talks to me about other girls.

We went out after work on friday, as usual she share chairs and stay real close to each other, other people noticed how we behave in the office as well, they are saying - she is diggin me, or she is in love with me...we end up sleeping in my bed that night,tho there is no sex involved,i am still happy...that i actually want someone

I am so confused, i like her and i want to date her, but she is confusing me big time, i dont know what i should do, is just getting hard,its just hard to stop thinking about her...i think am already in too deep...

Help guys, need ur input on this,

I'm not a guy but will try to answer. She told you right up front that she is a lesbian and from her actions, she is. She is either hiding behind you so people will think she is heterosexual or she is trying to make someone else jealous. Either way she is using you and you have to realize she is not in it for more than a friendship(and I doubt the friendship) and move on. The future of you and her is not there. Don't waste your emotions on this one.

talk to her about it

i think to hide her burning desire and love for u ...she didnt want to confess right away tht she likes u so...she said shes a lesbo..wait till u get a little more ahead..then ull know...atleast thats what i think..
WARNING: im a completely logical 16 year old kid...please dont take my advice if ur not sure or u think teens r as***

She is surely lesbian.. At least for now..

You know what? It's hard to get inside someone else's head to see their intentions, and hers are obviously very confusing. I truly would talk to her. Ask her if she is bi. Tell her that you get that she flirts with you and that you are attracted to her. But I suggest that if she is truly bi, go find someone else. You don't need that, for sure. That teen that answered may also have something, about her covering up her feelings for you. But rather than spend your time guessing, find out. If you two are such friends, you can ask and she should tell you the truth. I hope. Good luck.

she is infact a lez. sorry for the putdown bub but find a nether person because theey are all truning gayy

as much as you like her, you may need to just let it go. keep her as a friend because in a situation like this down the road you are setting yourself up for hurt.

Man, you're asking the wrong people. You should be asking her.

ok wat u need 2 do is hav a serious talk with her, thats really the only way u can tell if she shares the same feelings towards u, or does she only think of u as a frend, maybe u can see how she is with u, watch her actions, try to take everything she does and see wat she is tryin to tell u! but mostly talk her, also maybe u should wait till she makes a move if she tries to kiss u, or get really close 2 u. good luck!

I'm a straight guy, however, I think that all intimate relationships have some similar dynamics, goals, expectations, etc. Good communication is the key to understanding. Perhaps talking to your partner about how you feel may help (just like you posed this question on Yahoo). It's okay to ask her how she feels about you. Ask her to be honest in her reply. Good luck.

sounds as if she likes you and is really interested but is taking it slow.

you need to figure out if you want to get involved with her. she may have a sorted past.

on the other hand, she may be as you say, a lesbo.

what is the possibility she told you that to peak your interest? its possible.

maybe she just have a serious case of the hots for you. maybe you are the one she likes and wants.

whatever you do be careful. you would not want any woman to say you raped her. as you know, the consequences can be severe. there are many who have been convicted of rape on false conditions.

if she ever wants you to have her, you should consider getting a written agreement to be certain there are no surprises or misunderstandings.

you are a smart guy, and you are careful, but you need to be extremely careful.

i say this because if she was molested as a child, she could now be looking for revenge on any man.