Everyones opinion please....I need help for my friend?

I just wanted to find out a mans opinion on this subject :
Ok I have a friend who is messing with a married man. They started off as good friends. She is married also. She is currently going through problems with her husband . She telling the Friend all the problems shes going through. He also has problems in his marriage . They share their common problems... Well now they're sleeping with eachother. Here is the problem... He knows she like him but hes always telling her about how he love his wife and he always talking about other women around her. (I think hes just using her.) Before they slept together he would always give her a kiss... Now he leaves her office and doesn't think twice about kissing her.

This is all after just sleeping with her once!!!! Question to the men... What do you think his motives are? And why would he talk about other women to her(when he knows she likes him)? Also sometime he will call on the phone and talk to her about another woman or his wife???

Sounds like shes just getting used for sex. Hes not serious about her, just using her.

It`s about you, right? 100% sure! Be onest next time!

Man wants a 3 some...

he is bored with his wife so he is seeking fun outside his marriage

motives are sex, and trying to make her jealouse so that she gives him more sex.

Hes a scumbag, hes just using her. Shes a safe bet because she has as much to lose as he (shes not going to turn up and tell his wife is she.)

If they are both having problems at home they should either fix them, or leave their spouses, after all, it is their spouses who are the real victims in this, and if things are bad enough for your friend and her married colleage to shag around then they should do them a favour and leave.

I dont feel sorry for your friend or this guy, sounds like they deserve each other.

dey share a common prob!!!!dats where u r mistaken!he cant come out of his marriage.and wants some change!so he is using ur fren.this is only 4 few days and he'll ditch her later.so b careful

Hi! are'nt you really taking about yourself ? .. Men hah! but then again you are all just using each other .. I know you have asked for men to answer the question .. but come on you ( sorry your friend) is up for it .. sounds like he really wants his wife but his wife isnt into the ehem! naughty side of the relationship - I was like that with my husband - I told him to go bonk someone else - yeh! he came back .. the other women was fed up with him talking about me all the time... Maybe you ( your friend ) husband is fed up with you/her ... Good Luck and if it isnt you.. best advice is to not get involved in other peoples love lives..

The one you should talk to is your friend. You make adultery sound like a normal thing. For the fact that your friend has problems in the family does not warrant sleeping with other men. She can't be possibly running away from her shadow.

As for the motive of the man, it is very simple: there is an adage in Africa 'You refuse to accuse the insane man of a brutal offense and you expect a normal to accept responsibility'. It is true your friend is being used but it has been by mutual agreement.