Is it possible for a man to love a man and a woman at the sametime?

.esp. if he's startin with both (few months). My straight male friend whom I started a silent/ unacknowledged/ relationship with (I'm an Indian man). He acted as if he is deeply involved. Then I found out about a girl in his office he was really in love with. He denied it for sometime then indirectly accepted. He gave her preference over me, but said it was bcoz he knows her before he met me and meets her daily for 6 hours. But he still says he cares for me and wants to keep me too. We talked about all this indirectly.
Is it such luv possible? His love for me seemed genuine. But he seemed very emotional about his girl. I dont know if it is because of the social value attached to male-female relationships that makes him value her more or the fact that he seldom saw me, but met her daily for hours in close proximity or is he naturally inclined more towards women. Isnt it deception on his part to keep me in dark.And her.
I left him as I cudn't share him. but i still love and miss him.

good for you for leaving him. i know it was tough, but a good decision. yes, he was deceiving both of you.... even himself. you just saved yourself lots of frustration by ending it... instead of keeping up your "secret" relationship.

There are a lot of fishes in the sea. Let it go and move on.

sounds like he bi you can stick with him or get on with your life
only you can make that choice as they say the balls are in your court (no punt)