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I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. For some reason, my hubby developed a pretty intense fascination about it. So as I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him about it and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I wasn't sure if he would actually do it, but with a little encouragement, he did. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.
Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. Plus he was so honest about sharing his feelings with me about his curiousity. Is there any harm to letting him do it again? Has anyone else encountered this?

Honestly, I've met a lot of guys like that. It might not even be that he wants to dress up in women's clothing. I've met many guys who are fascinated by the image of it, how it is taboo for them but such a soft and sensual fabric.

Talk to him about it. Even if he does like to wear women's clothes, that does not mean he wants to be a woman or is homosexual or anything like that. If it bothers you and you want to make sure it doesn't get out of hand, sit down and set out guidelines. He can "play" in this way every once in awhile, but make it clear that it can't be an all the time thing.

Get ready to buy a strap-on, lady. lol
Have fun.

I honestly don't know but if you are truly honest with each other than sit down and have a talk with him about it, see if it's just the pantyhose or if it is all womens clothes. Ask yourself would you be okay with this (him wearing the panty hose) seeing that he already tried it on and asked again to wear them it seems he might have a thing for womens clothes(cross dresser) .I have a friend who likes to wear womens clothes all the time. If you don't mind and he don't mind then I guess it's okay but if you think you would mind then maybe you better have a serious but honest talk.

It's OK if you're OK with it. Sounds kind of strange to me, but: different strokes for different folks. He's not hurting anyone- why not let him have his fun?? We all have our turns-ons, his is harmless, so enjoy the ride.

Well almost all guy in some point in thier life have had the fantasy of being or wearing something of a women. Some think of panties, some bras, some makeup and some asessories like your husband.

The question to ask if you are feelin gunconfortable with this or not. Is it turning into some kinda of obsession for him. If it is then its not normal. If it helps in your sex life then by all means carry on. People are known to do crazy things to spicen up theeir sex life. You should have atalk with your husband if you feel unconfortable about him doing that. Try also distracting him from them by seducing him in other ways.

I'm a male who wears them in the winter time. I do wear them for the layering affect to have as many layers as possible when going outside. It is a strange feeling at first. Let him wear them the feeling of the strangeness will wear off. Beware if he starts liking them to much you won't have any left.

It's not abnormal unless it becomes an obsession. If you're okay with it, then no harm is being done. If it is beginning to bother you (which may be why you posted the question) sit him down and tell him your feelings. Try not to be accusational, saying things like "Its weird and awkward that you enjoy wearing my pantyhose". Just say how YOU feel...something along the lines: "When you first wanted to try them on I found it amusing and fun, but now I'm beginning to feel uncomfortable." It sounds like you have an open and honest relationship, so I think he would be open to discuss it with no problems.

Best of luck!

No I dont see anything wrong with it.You are his wife and if it doesnt bother you than no one else needs to know.Let him enjoy them.Hey its nice to see a grown man so happy over a pair of nylons....Personally i hate them lol...But thats just me.

There are a lot of men who wear pantyhose under their clothes to help keep them warm. What goes on in your house is the business of you and your husband. As long as you don't mind and he's not upset than what do you care what other people might think? You have your life to live as you and he see fit. No one else but you and him need know what happens when the doors of your house or apartment are closed.

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