10 points for u be real blunt?

This guy & ive got history as family friends who met online after his folks threw him out(reason unknown).We are friends in love 4yrs.2 sides to this guy.With pals a player,motor mouth,temper,says im after in love with him,shows cards given for bday,tells gang friend to tell me off who calls names,wont meet,knows family secrets,tells bro to tell my mum etc.But with me hes great,shares everything,hobby,online,phone been with me ops,through everything.I had enough.
1 issue rarely it happens but his temper though hes motor mouth.I dont react let him blow off steam.I called his office as no cell digits as he cant commit i tell him i go abroad if we dont meet.Temper flares motor mouth calls names,tells bro with him to tell my mum,he knows our fly secrets,tells his friend in gang to tell me off as hes told his pals im after in love with him both are on speaker phone in between he asks me where i am out of love & concern.His friends shocked haha lol.If i keep quiet let it blow his temper motor mouth off it blows up on my face.Now hes online,call i dont go online,call.Whats with him do u think?

He is one of these people who tries to satisfy and be a particular person around certain groups of people. With you alone he tries to play the role of a friend and companion because that is what you want. When he is with his buddies he feels he has to be "hard" and do all of these things to keep his reputation up with his friends. Guys like him don't even know who they really are, and they need to do some reflection as to what they enjoy and what truly makes them happy outside of being accepted by whatever company he is currently with.

This is a toxic relationship, you are better off finding someone that really cares about you then hanging around for this guy.

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Honestly? Hmm, where to start.

You're "allowing" him to throw his little tempers, which makes him look and sound like an a$$hole...you look like a wimp for not telling him to shut up.

This sounds like a match made in heaven....a "motor mouth" man who can get away with murder and tramp all over his submissive partner.

Good luck with that one (rolls eyes)

sounds like an *** to me if he's having his friends tell you off. get rid of him. his parents threw him out for a reason you need to find out that reason before you continue a relationship

Please speak a little slower. Thanks.

how many times did you have to tell the same story? no wonder the man has 2 sides, he's dizzy from all the bs you're doing!!!

He's an @$$ and you need to quit thinking he'll be someone he's not....find someone who will know how to treat you right.

I read the entire question and didn't understand any of it...why don't you take a grammar and spelling course and ask again. Blunt enough for you?

don't care about the ten points.......he is using you. two different sides, plus a bad temper. time for you to run. there are plenty others out there for you.

WTF are you talking about? Did you read your question?

Well, from what I can understand from this post I think you should just forget about him. This just screams DRAMA!
Move on! There are better guys out there!

What the heck? Please to do not give birth to any children the gene pool is getting thinner.

well first of all you didnt make any sense to me, but anyways, he's an idiot and so are you, you need to grow up and figure out what you are doing and where you are goin in you life and get a clue, dump him get away from him and you need to get a life as well.

Too much drama, way way too toxic and the REDFLAG is that he has a temper.....This is a dangerous relationship you need to stay as far away from as possible.....Or you can end up an ABUSE victim...

I think both of you deserve each other

He's probably as illiterate as you are. That's about it.

Man!!!you tell him, you dumb Bittch!!you motor mouth?/whatswrong with your gangsta frineds,long history there, almost 4 years, drop the act, be suicidal, dont use speaker phone, bro let go this ****, your temper flares after in love with motor mouth online,pick up the line with 2 sides.

WTF??? stop smoking that ****

'With me, he's great' Do you honestly think that?
He's not great with you at all, the reltionship expands out from just you, and the things he tells other people, and getting other people to verbally abuse you, tells me he aint great with you.

Love and concern my backside, he trying to demean you and control you, get rid of as soon as possible!

Stop with him,unless you are going to be willing to put yourself into a major rollercoaster ride......

Sounds like he is immature and has a lot of growing up to do....the way he acts around his pals shows that he cares more what they think of him than what you think of him...he may care for you, but not enough to act that way in front of his friends or enough to control his temper and betray your trust by telling his bro to tell ur mom stuff. I would advise you to possibly be friends with him, but not be in a relationship

Your relationship is stupid, and so are you and ya man

Dang! I really wanted 10 points but after reading more than once I can't quit figure out WTH you're talking about. The little bit I did make out sounds like he needs to grow up and put his priorities in order. If he can't seem to impress both you and his friends without offending either than he's confused and sounds like he's confusing you too.