I'm 18 years old ,and I'm in love with a girl who's 5 years older?

me and her works in the same office ,she's an architect and i'm a 3d artist,we've been working for together for a year,in the last two months i started to have feelings for her,feelings that i've never had before,after a while i started to make her know what i'm feeling and then it turned out that she feels the same way which made me so glad that we share the same feeling.
we discussed the situation,and guess what,her mother is 5 years older than her father,and she told that her parents won't have a problem with this and that she have the final decission.
maybe i'm young,but I'm sure of my feelings and we talk a lot about future,we both can live a good life, the problem stays with my father,i don't even know how to tell him,mom is not a big issue because she can understand but my father is to hard to convence,some of you will think that this is a childish feelings but it's not,we both understand eachother and we have so much in common,could some one tell me what to do ?

hi - im in the same sort of situation (well... a little different) my girlfriend is 4 and a half years older than me - and i met her when i was 18. we have a fabulous relationship, and we're both really incredibly happy! it was a little odd at first but after a month or so you just dontcare about the age difference, you just like each other. im 20 now, and still together, no sign of breaking up in the near future! its all good - even if your parents dont like it at first, what they say really has nothing to do with it - if you like each other you cant help that. theyll come around in time, once they meet her and like her then it wont seem wierd for them either - i guess the only reason theyd worry was if they thought she was using you. clearly this isnt the case, and when they realise that it shouldnt be a problem any more! go for it, have a great time! besides, its not like you're getting married or anything, you're still young - jus take it one step at a time and see what happens, and if you feel wierd later then you can always stop and at least you know you gave it a good go.

stay with her

there is nothing wrong with a 5 year gap. That helps when one partner has slightly more maturity and life experience. Tell your dad that you truly love her and he will come around

well, maybe your dad is worried about your love life......u're still young......don't worry, one day , he's gonna understand that... :) spend more time with her first....when it's the right time, persuade your father....everything wil be just fine!!!

dude you are 18 years old and you have a good job by the sound of it. make your own damn decisions.

Just do what you think is right for you,your father will accept it when he sees how happy you are.

age does't matter as long as you love each other,

a 5 year difference is not a big deal. if you want to be with her then go for it. your parents will accept it and support you in your relationship. good luck

there is nothing wrong and nothing right as such ..... and love is not a sin... love can happen to anyone and with anyone.....go ahead..... congrats for being in love.....

age doesn't matter... 5 years.. hmm.. not bad.. lol... I'm 9 years older than my hubby and we have a lot things in common.. we share on the same boat...

if you truly love someone, you'll fight for what you believe is right, it doesn't matter if the world told you it's wrong, because if you really love each other, you don't need the world, you just need each other...