Is this child abuse?

I need you advice on this is this consider child abuse me and my brother went McDonalds with our mother he鈥檚 13 im 3 years older. We were flinging ketchup at each other and on floor it got on some ppl.I got ketchup on some girls purse she fliped out it was a couch or something. The manager came to the table and told us to stop my mom comes out of the bathroom saw what we did she flip out. She asks the manager if she had high chairs and bibs and diapers for us her two babies. in the car ride home from mcdonalds she had the nerve to ask me when she goes to wallmart do i prefer huggies or pampers. i want to report my mom. I spoke to a counselor at school she told me no it鈥檚 not abuse and I should be thanking my mom for being so nice to me. She told me if I was her kid and did that that I and my bro would have been wearing bibs and diapers by the end of the week then she told me to leave her office. it has to be a girl thing or something they both agreed. she lied to me no parents would do that to there kids if they did what me and my bro did. It was mcdonalds it wasnt like it was a fancy place or anything.
...... She not social services but what she said is that right about its no abuse?

yea but she didnt hit you

No it's not abuse! You're damn lucky you're not my kids cause I would have beat your *** right there in front of everyone and dared them to call child protective services; hell I'd dial the number for them. Grow up and be thankful that your mom didn't make you wear the diapers; she should have cause you are a brat and in need of an @ss whoopin!

no its not child abuse child abuse is physical,mental,verbal,and sexual. she did none of those thing and what she said wouldnt qualify and im telling you the truth i know you think cause im a girl and its"a girl thing" but its true i may not be telling you what you want to hear but oh well you wanted an answer you got it

..........Grow up. You guys are spoiled babies. There are plenty of kids out there being hit for something they didn't do and just getting smacked because their parents feel like it, and you actually have the NERVE to whine about something trivial like THIS. If I say anymore, I might just cuss you out.......

You are deff a loser.. Who cares about bibs and diapers? Its no big deal. Hell-i would wear them all the time if i was allowed.. No need to walk all the way to the bathroom because you can just let it out whenever, and no worries about spilling stuff on your shirt.. Duh.

i woulda beat your *** right there at McDonald's for flinging ketchup... are you just stupid or something, and to make it worse you got it on someone elses property, lucky your not my kids, but then again mine know what is expected of them and the consequencess of such actions

No, it's not abuse. You and your brother are spoiled brats, and 50 years ago would have been beaten for such disregard and disrespect of other people and your mother. Throwing food in public is something BABIES do, not children who know better.

no its not abuse! you both just need to grow up and quit acting like children. your mother had the right to treat you both like 2 year olds since you were both acting like them. Child abuse is when the parent phiscally harms the child such as beating and stuff.

No its not abuse she is just pissed off at what the both of you did, your not suppose to act like that in public and not expect your mom to get mad...be more mature instead of playing around like little kids.

Cry Baby grow up. no is not abuse just trying to give you an example of the way you were acting.

She is right if you are going to act like that might as well use Diapers

I suggest you use huggies my kids like them.

Not abuse at all. Abuse is hitting no hitting involved. Thats just a consequence from your actions. Besides of course she would flip out because you spilled ketcup on a lady's coach bag. Coach bags are expensive try about $300.00 to $600.00

no it's not abuse at all !
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umm i would say not. a 16 year old should be acting that imature.

Get real.

That's not abuse, you need to grow up.

lol wat the hell dude........... NO THATS NOT ABUSE its called parenting.......... i wonder if u would kno how to do that wen u grow up huh??? i mean its not like she hits u is it???/ THATS ABUSE

... You were being immature, and your mother is your mother. If you can't learn to take stuff like that from your mother, you will not go far in life because you'll always be complaining about when people point out when you do something wrong. Get over it and grow up. Your counselor is right; you were immature and probably humiliated your poor mother. You're thirteen now, so learn to act it. Right now it just sounds like you're whining because your mother is verbally reprimanding you. It doesn't matter if it was a "nice" restaurant or not.

You're going to have to deal with a lot worse in your life as you grow up.

Are you serious? You act like an idiot in public, getting ketchup on innocent bystanders, and you think that your mom is being mean to you? You're lucky. If you were my kids I would've loaded you in the truck and said goodbye to McDonald's for 6 months. How can you be so stupid to wonder if it's child abuse? More like parent abuse, by you kids. You're supposed to behave in public. Do you think that just because you're kids, you have the right to act like idiots? You don't. Act civilized, and grow up. Don't embarrass your parents.

Are you super sensitive or something. Child abuse. Are you retarded. Okay, she said something mean to you. Waaah... go cry to the police. My mommy is abusing me with words! lol. And if I were that girl I would be extremely pissed at you. Coach purses are pretty expensive and ketchup isn't the easiest thing to get out. My mom slaps me if I say something rude to her, and your crying about her calling you a baby. Grow up! You're 16 years old!