There is a girl I work with and it is only me and her that work in the office for three years.?

I get on with my work and I am always civil to her yet..she wouldnt say hello or goodbye. She talks about work and wouldnt even ask you how the weekend went. There was a death in the family recently , She came to the service yet she didnt speak to me at it. Why would she carry on like this, she told me recently it wouldnt bother her if she never seen me again......why would someone behave like this and yet say everything is fine and I havent done anything to annoy her?

What a cow. You need to have a laugh at work. How can she be like that to you? She is a BULLY. Maybe you should realise that you deserve to be treated with more respect and show her that. I wouldnt even give her the impression that you care. Rise above it. Bullys and people like that are only nasty if you allow them to get to you. I work in an office and even though we wouldnt all choose to spend time with each other out of work, if someone behaved and spoke like that to someone else, they would be in discilpinary for harrassment. Dont take it. Good luck - be strong! x

it sounds to me that she likes you and she finds it easier to ignore you that face the possibility of being rejected.

Are you or her already taken?

maybe she has a sercret crush or more likely she's a psycho?

just piss her off then make her see why she doesnt like you