Is my boyfriend a control freak or is it his way of being in love?

1/ We only have sex when he initiates it and finds it a "turn-off" when I insinuate I am in the mood first - I also thinks he gets off on the fact that this frustrates me as he laughs. This is really makin me feel bad

2/ He rings me on the phone all the time and if he can't get hold of me or I don't return his calls within 15 mins he rings my office, or rings other people and asks "casually" if they have seen me.

3/ He's not the jealous type of other men but last night I was out with friends and he called and text me constantly - interupting
4/ We only do what he wants to do socially and it's ok for him to be tired and grumpy but not me

5/ He relies on me alot because he thinks I am more intelligent/ efficient than him( I am a professional worker in teh city, he works in a "blue collar" customer service job - doing the admin sort of things - yet if I make one little human mistake it's like I have committed the crime of the century.

I dont' know what to do anymore am tired

Get rid of him. He's insecure, rude, & selfish.
What he does for a living really doesn't matter unless it matters to you. But he sounds exhausting; move on. Find someone who can appreciate you. And by the way give yourself some time in between relationships. Tell yourself your not dating for three months. That means even getting laid. Really find out about what you want in a relationship before jumping in. And let him chase you; don't be calling him for at least the first month or so. GET TO KNOW HIM, DON"T JUMP IN WITH BOTH FEET.

Sounds like a control freak. Didn't you ask this before?

control freak no doubt

This leads to abuse ( typical signs of it ) Trust me dump over the phone or inernet you won't want to be in his way when it happens. Take it from sombody who knows and has experience with this.

hey girl how can u live with such a guy who wants u to do his things?????u call it he relies on u????can u plz find a guy whome u can rely on after all u r a female..........plus for above he is in secure about u that is why he call ppl to ask about u he wants to be with u so that no other person can try on u.he was texting u coz of this only and he has a bit of inferiourity complex also.....what ever it is but he is not ment for u ........leave him.......

?????? Sounds lke a control freak...but thn you got to look at it from his point a view an don't be so quick to make judgement.what I could say is frist have a tlk to your self and find out what it is that you wont!? What it is that your missing? As well as,as needing from this person? Most of all find out what you think is best for you and your well being? After you get that understanding with yourself go to hem.let hem know how you feel.your needs,an your wonts.tell that man how you feel and if you feel that he is worth going threw what he's putin you do then stick with make it work.but if its not an he's not willin to change then let hem go an do you.be happy!love are like or what ever you have shouldn't make you feel how you feel now.lifes to short for that 锛勩偒脧鈧?do what you got to do for you to be happy no one else.

Thats NOT love and sounds like a very toxic relationship. Dump the guy and move on.

Dump him before this gets worst!!!! That is out of hand. I don't think he has trust in you. A relationship without trust ain't worth anything. Sorry.