Help with men!?

ok, im 17 nearly 18 and i go to Fe college. theres a guy who works there who i have developed this serious crush on! hes not a teacher, he works in college information services which i think is just admin, id say he was about 20-24 and i dont think hes got a gf or is married ( i overheard a convosation!lolz) i dont stalk him, i just see him around college a lot.
do u think i have any chance with him? cos i cant stop thinking about him, or do you think hes obliged to have some kinda professional relationship with students? cos i was thinking of finding a reason to go into his office etc.
do u think its worth me persuing it?!

Sure! Go for it. Life is too short for what ifs...

nope

naw, just do em!

talk to him,

it's his job,

that is what he is there for...

Well if I was you.
You should talk yo him?
If you like him.

No, stay away. You could cause him to lose his job.

no way

crushes are ton of fun! if you think you have a chance go for it! Whats the harm? just dont go like psycho on him. lol.

good luck = )

nope not rullie "girls dont go to guys, guys go to girls" it helps maintain the feminem look :)

Yea it should be find be direct and to the point and I'm sure you will be rewarded!!! Of course if he's dating or married (act really really disappointed, us guys were really gullible for a disappointed girl), no problem with networking if your available ask him if he has another brother or friend as cute or attractive as him you'll most certainly earn some bonus pts for the remark and he just may know someone he could actually hook you up with in any case! You would have asked him if he were available and you build confidence either way yea or ney! Just make sure you keep me posted if you approach him I really like hearing about the conclusion of these kinds of things!!! Thx and best of luck, make sure you don't over analyze things just approach him tell him you've noticed him around he seemed very nice, charming what ever and you wanted to know if he'd like to have a coffee or whatever sometime to meet and talk... he should take it from there!

About all the ney sayers on here my dear your in college now that's the "Real World" its about personal survival, if that is the Future "Mr. Mrs's" you go for it you will never no unless you venture a try sweetie go for it again just be direct and to the point tell him you've just seen him and around...etc read above...

Guy

I guess you could give it a try.....

I think you should go for it. Just make it a point to by he's office. If he is intersted he'll make a move. If not I suggest move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

you go and do what you want to do its your life their is no right and wrong just do what u want!

Many schools have policies about teachers or staff dating students.
Leave the poor guy alone!!

Besides.......contrary to what you might think or believe........at this stage of your life, if you're 17 and he's 24.....you're really at very different places in your life and I think he's too old for you.......even if he wasn't staff! I know you will likely disagree with me but trust me when I say I've been there, done that and its not worth it!!
Date people your own age or up to a year or two older and not anyone employed at your school!...........and just because you don't think he's married or has a girlfriend doesn't mean he doesn't!