Is it appropriate for a woman from my husband's office to call him on his personal time?

Ok, so my husband started this new job a few months ago. Well, since then atleast once a week while we are at home either after work, or on the weekend, this woman calls his phone. She usually calls just for stupid personal reasons like, she was interested in an apartment my husband used to rent, asking him if he is going to some work function, ect. When I see her name pop up on his phone i get so mad. They work with about 50 people.......why but why does she feel like she needs to call him????? Is he doing something to make her feel that she can? Or is she just stupid. I know better. You do not pick up a phone and call a married man at home! I don't know her! I feel it is very disrespectful to me. I got so mad when she called this weekend I answered the phone to just hang it back up on her. I want to tell her that it is wrong to call a married man on his personal time, but my husband asked me not to. He said it would make an uncomforatble work enviroment! Whatever! What do you think?

She only has his number because they work for a cell phone co. and she has everyones number there. Also, she is not his supervisor or anything either.

I'd say your husband might be having an affair with her. Why else would she be so attached? If not, then put a stop to it soon before he DOES cheat. She sounds like a homewrecker.

NO! enough said-and especially not for things she can figure out for herself-Let her ask her dad or her brother. You could ask your husband not to answer calls from her-If he is committed to you, he will do as you ask.-What is going on at the office that gives her the impression she can call your husband, aren't there other men at the office.

You are pretty fixated on this. Put the brakes on this deal if it bugs you that much. Call her and tell her to stop or better yet tell your hubby to put the brakes on it....if he doesn't you know he is enjoying the attention (i get the feeling he is anyway) otherwise blow it off and the hubby will lose interest and stop answering

Why are you mad at HER? This is your husband's fault sweetie, not hers. He is the one giving her permission to call him, he is obviously buddies with her at work, and he would rather have a comfortable work environment than a comfortable marriage. Wake up!

Just show up at the office one day for lunch looking gorgeous and ask him to introduce you to her, if she continues after that to call him, pick up the phone next time and tell her to get lost ...

She is and he is disrespecting your marriage. You and hubby need immediate marital counseling. Hubby is a weak Casper Milquetoast, and this must be stopped now!!!

Hell no, no one should call your husbands' cell phone why can't she call the house, if it's not personal. Maybe u should talk to her.

Why do you ask this every single day? You must have hundreds and hundreds of answers to choose from by now. Get a life.

please tell this woman next time she calls how you feel about her calling apparently some people do not get the message by others being ruce to them grow up and speak to her like a mature woman

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I think she has the hots for your husband.

dude, they are an item

if he doesn't answer, there can be no stupid/goofy question

You already know the answer to this one yourself hon....and someone needs to put a stop to this outlandish business..I hate to say it but no matter how "uncomfortable" this may be for your hubby HE needs to make the move to tell her to stop calling on his "personal" time....that he has a family at home and he doesn't want to jeapordize anything.....that's the only 'right" way to end this thing.....if I were you, I would be exploding with anger...I don't know how you are handling it...she has NO right whatsoever and she dam well knows it...c'mon give me a break...she's a woman, she's not stupid, she's sneaky and I'm sure that she knows she's getting under your skin....someone needs to put her in her place and she needs to STAY THERE! Talk to your hubby and calmy and plainly as you possibly can...tell him this can't go on and that their relationship should strictly be work related and no calls on personal time.....she can bother someone else if she feels the need but not HIM....do this right away before this whole situation drives you totally insane because I know that it would me....I'de have someone's head on a plate by now....and I'm a pretty reasonable person but DON"T take advantage of me or you'll really wish you hadn't!
Good Luck to you hon...I'm praying for you on this one....keep us all updated!

You should ask your husband to talk to her politely and ask her not to call your house. Yes, he is right, it's not so good for his image at work if you do it. But if he refuses to do so and calls continue - explain it to her yourself when she calls again. It doesn't matter if she likes him of she's just poor mannered - she needs to lear it's not OK to call your house.

Answer it-tell her he has his mouth full right now (lol) & tell her you do not appreciate her calling your husband. He sounds innocent in it all , but nip it in the bud-put your foot down now, otherwise she'll assume she can do more. That's exactly how my ex started to cheat on me-she worked for him & called day & night & he denied & denied it until one day...she even pretended to be my friend for awhile to get to him. I could see her sneaky plan now clearly, but he refused to believe she was really after him. I sure wish I would have done something about it all then. Not sure if it would have stopped it, but I'd sure feel better now! Good luck...

Ok, obviously she is not calling for business reasons, if she is calling once a week or so. You must talk to your husband about it, tell him that you don't think it is appropriate for another women calling the house like that, (if not family, already close friends, neighbors etc.) and that he should tell that other women not to do that. Unfortunately its him sweetie, and if he is allowing her to do that it won't go away no matter what you say to her. You must talk to him about it. Make sure he doesn't pull the trust card though. I'm having that problem now.

I would not tolerate her calling my husband if I were you, totally uncalled for, at work, if there are work issues, fine, but NOT at home, I would have some serious issues with that one. I would put down my foot if I were you.

She feels like she needs to call him and ask him stupid questions because she likes him and she is one of those women who are marriage wreckers and home wreckers and she is determined to get what she wants and she does not care who she hurts on her quest for your man.

Tell your husband what you told us, that you do not pick up a phone and call a married man at home, and you do not know her and that you feel it is very disrespectful to you. Tell him those same words!!!!!

Good for you, hanging up on her is wonderful!!! Next time, take the conversation outside and tell her how you REALLY feel, woman to woman, and do not feel like you have to keep those claws in, take them out and fight for your man!!! Show her what you are made of, she is showing everyone what she is made of by calling your man, I think she needs to be put in her place!

Do not listen to your husband and ask your husband why he feels like this is going to disturb his work environment and threaten his job, when "she" is already doing that for him???

One of these days she is going to get him fired! I think it is time for you to nip this one in the backside!

I had a problem like this one and what I did when I saw her name on his cell phone, I answered it myself. When she asked to speak to him, I politely told her that he was busy with is family at the moment, but I would be glad to take a message & he could get back to her when he returned to work. After I did this about 3 times, I guess she finally got the message, because she stopped calling. Since I was nice about it, it did not cause any problems or uncomfortableness at work for him.

I personally think it is very inappropriate...I am married and I wouldn't like it either. Once or twice, questions about the apartment would be okay, but after that I would be wondering what she was up to. If he's worried about an uncomfortable work environment and doesn't want to tell her not to call, perhaps he could just not answer it when her number shows up on caller id, eventually she'll get the hint.