Ok I REALLY NEED SOME ANSWERS PLZ?

Ok I am 22 and I have this older lady that leaves next to me and she acks likes she is 25 again any ways yesterday i went in to the office to pay my rent and i was talking to the ower about buying my house well she as in the older lady was out side being very well i walk out and tell lisa i well talk to her later and the older lady walks in and tell me to get out that she doent want anyone to know whats going on in her home or around her home or i understand that thats far well i am kidda freind well the older lady and we got in to get befor about her grandson she thinks he does not wrong and we was not talking for a while then we started becasue my house got broke in to to make a long story sort she all ways wants me to take her ever where since she was so rude what should i do i don't care really how old any one is they did to respect me and others but she is a rude lady she never gives me gas money and i all ways go out of my way for her so what should i do i well add on some more

like one time i ask her do you need to go to the store becasue i am going to pick my boyfreind up from work and that it i am not going any where eles and she said no but as soon as i got home a pulled in the drive way and walk in my door he she come ur taking me to the store now i need to go or calls me a ***** and lazy how can i be lazy i work 2 jobs tells me my boyfreind is not good for me she i am a kind hearted person and i don't like to be mean and ever when we wasnt talking i went over there to tell her i was sorry even thow i didnt do nothing and she told me to **** off help guys the best one i well give u 10 points or me and her are going to be fighting

obviously you are a very caring person, and are looking out for this older lady, but baby she is bringing you down, and eventually is getting the best of you, she is very disrespectful, ungrateful,rude, that takes you for granted, just uses you.
as hard as it may seem to say NO, you need to, just gradually stop talking to her, avoid her, if you can't, just say your hellos, and be on your way, don't give her a chance for a conversation, it'[s better this way, and it doesn't make you an awful person. hanging around someone like her Will make you an awful person. good luck!

The best way is to talk it out, in a calm and mature way: choose the moment correctly, when she is okay in her mood. Keep someone with you. Judge her frame of mind, talk openly and in a friendly manner, everything will be okay, if you choose the right moment! good luck!

tell her your busy or hand her a bus schedule or something she needs to respect you and shes taking advantage

okay, first of all you have to survive next to this seemingly selfish person who seems to think the world revolves around her. tell her you respect her as a neighbor but you are not her child, you are not her taxi and her opinions about you are unwanted and she should keep them to herself. tell her you work to jobs and have a life of your own which is no longer going to include her because it is a burden you do not need. she obviously found a way to shop and do all she needed to do before you moved in or she did. tell her you will remain respectful saying hello when you pass but other than that you would not like to carry friendship further and stick to it. sometimes being too nice to anyone no matter what age just gets you taken advantage of.