Have I failed life? I could kill myself anytime....?

I feel i'm goin into depression abt the things happenin in my life. i know i'm a very able n talented guy, but, right now, evrything's so so wrong! I failed my course at uni, need to take a resit but very very doubtful if i'd get an student visa extension as i hav outstanding dues to uni and they won't register me until i cleared the dues... which is impossible for me right now. my visa expires in 2 days and i'd hav to go bak home with nothing...after spendin more than 15K pounds, i'm at the verge of losin it all... i lost my job this month due to arrivin 30 mins late at work for 2 consecutive days. I was very good at work, one of the best in tht office, so I was told. but i got sacked for being late and it sucked! so now, i hav no money to pay rent. i might hav to go bak with nothin... leavin all my dreams behind... i'd hav a life with nothin left in it! and all the shame and guilt would make my life even more miserable! my parents wud be so shattered if i ended up like this!

All u guys r like angels to me..!!! Thr's no one on the face of this earth who knows abt all this **** I'm in! I'm too ashamed to tell frens... n i aint got anyone tht close here... Couldn't talk to family cuz i thot they'd be so upset n distressed abt it! Thank u for all those assurin words... now i think i shd let it all out n start fightin real strong! I think I'll shoot the thing in the head of it..!!! I need to kick myself hard n start flyin! I never ever had failed a course...i'd always been in merit.. so this thing's all the more painful... I know i could do so many wonderful things, but, i never pressed the right buttons... I'm such an a**hole for wat i was doin to myself... I spent the whole evenin smokin n cryin, n I'm a guy who wouldn't cry even with a bullet in his arm! I'd become so alone, helpless and scared to face things tht I started cryin.
I never thot one crazy question here could make me feel so much better..!!!!
Can't thank u guys enuf..!!! U almost saved my life!

Please don't say this. You have not failed life!! Simply, you are facing issues in life right now just like the other millions of people in this world. Please don't do anything crazy because your parents love you and understand that you can do better then "killing yourself". I was reading your question and thought to myself "gosh this man is going through crazy times right now". You can get out of all this eventually. It will take time but the key is to take little steps and not think about the whole problem. YOu will think im crazy but I think that people who have everything going right in their life are unfortunate because they don't have anything to strive for. Nothing in their life forces them to grow and become stronger people. We learn from our mistakes and misfortunes. I can say this because I was once in the same position you are right now. I did not think of suicide because I believed in myself and knew that I could do better. I was not going to let anything stand in the way of my dreams. My family encouraged me and helped keep me going and now everything is getting better but I took "baby steps". Its okay that you failed a course. So have I. We all do it and its normal. I can't really help you about the visa but if you go talk to someone who knows about it they will help you. Try to get an extension to your visa so that you can get a job and qualify for scholarships. But if you haveto go backto whereever you came from, don't think your life is over. THere is always a way and maybe you could earn some money there and then come back. Please talk to someone because they will be able to give you more advice then me. Bottom line is that I think that the only person who can destroy their dreams is the person himself. You must say. "These are my dreams and I will get to them no matter what anyone says or how hard things get". Good luck and I feel things will get better for you eventually. Take care!

you have all the potential.
do things that bring joy without needing money.
your parents will understand and help you.
my friend just took his life yesterday, don't be like him. no more chances once you're gone.
there is still 'happy' in unhappy.

Dude, some times you have to tighten the purse strings and figure out what you can do without. People fail at what they wset their goals too and how they handle it defines them as a person. Sure you can give up and throw life away or you can go in the office at uni and explain your situation. Push hard and you may be suprised at what happens.

please go and get help... you have not failed at all! pick yourself back up !!! come on!!! x

Hey brother that is tuff. Beleive in faith and give it your all these two days to find out what can be done. Maybe a plan can be worked out with UNI? What ever you do don't give up, always hang in there. I am a positive person and like to think that things will work out as long as you work very hard to overcome. Wish i could have been more help but wanted to let you know someone out here is prying for you. Good Luck Brother

i dont agree with "i'd hav a life with nothin left in it!" becuase something always comes along, it has to
theres another thing you could also do, pray.
and to answer your question, you have not failed life

don't do any thing stupid

join the club

Killing yourself is NOT the answer (referring to the title.), trust me. Your life is worth more than you think, and you just need to pull yourself together. Try and find another job, and hope that things look up.

~Maddie

sweetie, first im gunna tell you to chill, and take a deep breath. suicide is never the answer, i had a friend do it a couple years ago, and THAT would be more devastating to your parents than you just messing up.


first of all, im sorry to say it, but it seems like the root of most of your problems is laziness. idk if it was some other weird reason, but just make sure to not make excuses for yourself. become more active in your own life, and it will improve!! college is college, and that means you can go to college for however long you want, and you can fail it as many times as you want. i understand how money is a problem, but you know, a lot of ppl pay for college without the help of their parents. what you need to do is wipe your slate clean, and stop being so lazy and actually live your life! if you go to class and study, you will pass!! if you get your butt to work on time you will make money!! you really just need to give yourself a good kick in the pants and stop feeling sorry for yourself.

good luck

dont give up..... this its hard but it get better dont give up dreams..there hope ..in times like kick your head up head n dont ever fall....then every u work it b down the drain .. u could still make it..u just gotta u can do it.. dont give up! pull out those loans!!
good luck

First of all, please don鈥檛 kill yourself! Suicide is a quick and easy answer to your pain, but it will leave a lot of people behind who will be shattered by your death. Suicide is never the answer!!! You are a wonderfully created son of God. Perhaps you鈥檝e fallen so that he can pick you up.
George Bernard Shaw says 鈥淎 life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable but more useful than a life spent in doing nothing.鈥?You haven鈥檛 failed life. You鈥檙e a student; you鈥檙e young. There鈥檚 a lot of life ahead of you. Take responsibility for the place you鈥檙e in right now. You say you鈥檝e failed classes and lost your job. These are things that happened because of your own actions, so next time around hit the books a little harder, leave for work a little earlier. This can be a temporary thing. If you have to go home, get a job and try again. It doesn鈥檛 end here.
I hope that helps.

Don't think you're the only one who has it tough. Take it one day at a time. It can't get any worse. Fight the fight.

Dude, just pray about it. Nothing happens without a reason. God will provide to those who need it. Just have faith, trust in the Lord. He gave you this life. Use it don't take it.

no it will get better please dont i have deppression too but suicide wont hepl you call the suicide hotline thingy just dont kill urself if it hepls ill pray for u

hey man ive been there and done that, but one good night sleep and waking up the next morning, realizing that there are millions of jobs out there, knowing ur talented, got an education, got parents that will help you, YOU WILL BE FINE. i have been in horrible situations but when it comes down to it, when you've finally overcome it all, you will be very confident, secure, and ready to attack life. its all about how far you would go to be happy, ive gone as far as making an imaginary friend. remember theres only one life, and before you die, you have to LIVE!!!