Wife and husband issue. Wife walked out home 2months ago.?

I left my husband two months ago because I am tired of paying all the bill except half of the rent. the place was in my name and he felt he didn't have to pay full rent. I paid the health insurance and dentist insurance out of my check. We both worked for the post office and he finally told me that he didn/t marry me to take of me. you work. He didn't want to talk things out with me. he laugh and talk with his family and friends. he doesn't treat life a wife . He been using me for a long time and I accept it but now I had got to the point I could take it any longing and move out. Now he moved around the complex of my home and pays for everything. all rent , all light and I wondering why he would help me . He doesn.t give me any money for the kids. I filed child support. But why did he talk me for granted. why could he leave? What did I do to make him turn on me. He gave the 2 girls 8 and 12 cell phone so he does.t have to talk to me about anythings. please help me k

I didn't get all of the info because of mispellings, but:
You left! That's what you wanted and what most of us think you should have done....... a long time ago. He didn't help you then, how do you expect him to help you now? he pays all his bills now because he has to, before he had you to do it.

Cell phones are good for the girls if they don't abuse them. Why do you need him to talk to you (hes already "talking about you").
He moved around you to keep an eye on you. Let him look! Just make sure you give him something to see, "WITH CLASS"!

All your answers, are in your question.

Read it... and THINK about what you're saying... I think you'll get it.

first of all, your issues were big before you left. But you need to learn to communicate with him because your children have 2 parents, and it is not OK to alienate your kids from him or vice versa. Keep filing for child support, move on, and find a guy that appreciates you. Good luck.

it just took you too long to figure you were married to a no good asshole, sorry, hang in there

Life is rough, and then we die!!

He doesn't want to be in a marital relationship with you. The reasons don't matter. Accept the help for the kids' sake, and move on with your life. Rediscover your own interests and dreams and make plans for your life yourself. Get busy enjoying your life as your own person.
Good luck and God bless.

Good for you. There is nothing wrong with divorcing him, yes it might hurt, but you will move on. He was using you!!!! So please move on and stop worrying about it. Child support will come thrue eventually as long as he is working. . Not being with him at first might feel weird and he might still do the things he does, its just his way of ticking you off or maybe even avoiding you.

I'm not a therapist or a psychic. Why don't you ask him?

Dont worry about it. You will never figure it out and it is not worth wasting your time trying to do so. Be the best person you can be and continue on with your life. I know things will be tough in the beginning, but they will get better. You will have the chance to meet someone that will love you for who you are in the future. dont rush into anything. Take at least a year away from dating to find yourself again. Have faith, it will get a lot better.

you have answer your own question you let your husband take a vantage of you then when you moved out well what was he surpose to do he had to live some were lol

your question is complex, to be honest your not going to find any answeres here. You need to do some soul searching, and get your self in a postion to be strong for your kids.

Next...take the cell phones, do not allow your YOUNG kids to have them. This also forces your soon to be ex to call the house to contact his kids. When he calls you have to be nice, and you dont need to ask your kids what daddy said. Let both your kids and your ex feel it's ok to call and talk to each other.

Sweet heart for get about him.......he is not a man......hes a mama boy. A man should respect his family and most of his wife
this man is an monkey and he has eating fleas from your back...don't groom this primate any longer. There are a lot of good men out there, that respect women, look for one of those and get a divorce as soon as you can

you're right relationships should be equal he should have split bills 50 /50 if he didnt want to work on the relationship and meet you half way then the hell with him dont deny him his kids but do go to the welfare office and fight for child support for your children maybe his reaction to all this is that he has finally been caught trying to use you forever, and his only way to deal with it it to try to hurt you. theres someone out there better when you find him dont let him move in unless you know hes willing to meet you half way good luck

Just move on....let him do his own thing...get child support for your children! Find you a REAL man one who will take care of you! Good Luck!!

Man screw the BS!!!! Him leaving you was the best thing for you!!! Take those cell phones and leave them on your front doorstep and tell him to come pick them up. If he is happy paying for his own place....than he is a dumb ***. IF you have to explain to him how to contribute to half of anything then you probably have to explain how to contribute to half of love and baby that鈥檚 not LOVE!!!

You have the girls right...make their cell phones dissappear. These girls do not need cell phones....this is trouble! Do not
say anything to the girls...just make one come up missing
one week, then the other the next...be sure to turn them off
and store them at work or put them in a zip-lock bag and bury
them in the flower bed. He should not be talking to the girls or
have any rights without paying child support. Go to the nearest
womens help center...do not confide in anyone about the cell phones...it is not important. Do however get some help with
moving, do not tell the girls you are moving. Do not tell your friends anything...just get a place you can afford where your
girls are in a safe neighborhood, and can be involved in safe after school activities. Get them involved in a youth program at a church, Do not list your telephone number, change your cell phone number, Do not give out your home number to the new
school, only your cell phone number. Do not put a computer in the house where he can email the girls. Tell the girls you are going to play a game with them after you move and before they
start their new school...tell them they have a new life so now they
need nick names or to go by their middle names...when it comes
time for registration, you are using your nickname or middle name and so are they....and go get your divorce in a hurry, change your last name to your maiden name and register your children under your maiden name with their new names....the social security numbers that are required are not likely to be looked into...just paperwork...no biggy! You can say you are from
Texas and have always homeshchooled and not even give their
previous schools name...if the girls are quized...do not have them lie...just let them let you get caught...this will probably not happen...most teachers are not interested much in their students
personal lives unless they come bruised, or begin to have mental
or emotional issues, or not turn in homework, or will not do their work, or begin to hang out with bad kids. You have a lot to do in a short time....be quiet....be smart...be fun with the girls and don't let them in on anything for the time being....your man is naughty and a brute, and you need to get tough and move on with your life!

As usual I can see that free advice is worth about what it costs.........nothing.