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I stay with my younger brother and mother. I am the sole bread earner for the family. We are in hand to mouth living, staying in a small portion for nearly 10 years. Mt landlord wanted us to vacate as he wanted to increase the rent. We refused to vacate as we have been maintaining the house for the last 10 years without failing the payment even for one month.

Failing to convince us, he started a new game. The next day he came to my house when my brother left to school and my mother to temple.When I opened the door immediately he hugged me, kissed on my face and squeezed my butts violently. He bit my lips so blood was spilling. He did all this at the door where outsiders can see, and I had to rush inside. He too entered and grabbed my breasts from behind, squeezed them violently, told me that he would do this till I vacate.
Next day I went along with my mother to temple stayed for half hour till my office time and left to office. I returned late in the evening so my mother was back eventhough my brother went to play. He again came, even knowing that my mother is in kitchen but still reached me biting my lips. He pushed his hand in to my blouse and grabbed my breast and even crushed between thighs with other hand. When I tried to shout he closed my mouth and licked my cheeks. The only word he told me is that I needed to vacate.
The issue in our society is that even if I raise my voice people may help and beat the guy but they will show disrespect to me as well for no reason. This is one reason why I was not able to tell any others.
I tried my best to avoid him by going out early and coming late back to home, but his attacks continued somehow and the degree of molesting increased.
On one day when he caught me on the terrace of house where no one can see us. He was leisurely removing the buttons of my blouse while lifted my sari up to waist groping my bare thighs. Thats when had to break and agreed to vacate. He heard me but continued fondling my breasts. When I requested him to leave me as I agreed to vacate, he kept quite but continued.
The attacks repeated. He even indicated that he wanted me wherever I go.
Now the problem was not even vacating the house. I must get rid of this person. All I am thinking is to get some training on offesive techniques to tackle him. Can any of you help me?

First of all get the police involved. What he's doing is essentially rape.
Secondly... carry a knife or a stun gun. Have it out as soon as you get around people. Don't let anyone see you have it out. Conceal it against you wrist. When you see someone approaching you make aggressive motions to let them know you are scared and to keep their distance. If they continue to approach then you know they intend you harm. Keep the weapon concealed until you are ready to use it. Stun gun will put them down instantly and you don't have to worry about killing them. With a knife you have to kill them or at the very least incapacitate them. If you decide to go with the knife. You have to be quick and aim for the throat. You will need to practice this a lot. But the maneuver is performed similar to a karate chop to the neck but instead it is done with a knife. It's a quick strike and you run like hell. I know other moves I learned from the military but I can only show you those. I can't explain them too well. Also have a friend practice choking you so can learn to control your fears. Most people stop thinking when they're in danger. This exercise will teach you to react differently.

Um, you need to get the authorities involved if possible. He is guilty of soooo many things. But yeah, we call it a knee to the groin. You just pull your leg back and- WAM- knee in him between the legs as hard as you can! Also there's a spot under the ear right below the jawline that is very tender, just take your thumb and dig into his skin as hard as you can and he will stop doing whatever he's doing, I promise!

There are lots of things a woman can do to defend herself. The first and probably most effective is to stand up to him. I know it would be hard, because of your culture, but let him know that you will fight back and scream if he comes near you again, no matter what happens to you. Then, if he touches you again, scratch the living daylights out of his face. It hurts a lot, generally scars, and is very visible. The problem you have is that he's gotten a thrill out of overpowering you. His behavior will continue, and he will probably target other women too. If you don't confront him and follow through you will continue to suffer and may cause other women to suffer too. And know this; your culture and your neighbors may ostracize you for being a victim, but we at Yahoo will not. You are a brave and worthy woman, and I'm rooting for you. You can e-mail me anytime you want and I will respond and send you my e-mail address too.

Excuse me how long are you going to let this creep get away with this? he may also be doing it to other women! get the authorities involved and explain to them exactly as you have written in here......try to write down all the occasions and times he is doing this to you and give this to the police. This has become a criminal matter and it is sexual harrassment bordering on rape. Tell the police that he is sexually harrassing you because he wants to put the rent up.....Go to the police immediately.......Good Luck

sure can help you email at dr.nicole_white@yahoo.com

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