What is the deal with my boyfriend?

Money is tight for me right now and I can barely pay my bills.
My boyfriend offered to help me with my rent - as a LOAN, if I didn't have it by the time it was due.
I didn't have it, so when it came time to pay, I had him come with me to my landlord's office to pay it.
Well, after he had paid, all he could do was remind me of how many other times he's "bailed" me out for one thing or another and he said he didn't want to pay the landlord directly because he didn't want the landlord thinking he was a sucker and blah blah blah.
I really appreciate him helping me and I'm going to pay him back when I get the money, but why offer when all he does afterwards is gripe about it?

I don't like the situation I'm in right now, I AM working, but money is terrible and he knows it.
I thought it was very nice of him to help me, as otherwise I would have had a large late fee, but now I don't want him to ever do that again as his good deed only makes me feel worthless afterward.

have you tried to keep better track of your finances? and how many times has he bailed you out? If he has to help you out every other week with something, I would say you have problems keeping your finances in order, and he's tired of taking up the slack....If he has to shell out cash very infrequently,,,then he's just being a cheap *** and a meanie...It's bad enough you have to ask him for money, but he just makes it worse by lecturing you about it...if he asks to help next time, just say no thank you...I would rather be broke than a burden

Well tell him to stop complaining he offered to pay. You didnt ask him.

Get a better job.

i would say he has bailed you out before and is getting sick of it, he is unhappy about the way you manage your finances and your life, or he is a complete a-hole....

tell him that. he needs to know how he makes u feel. if he only does it to make u feel bad later then he's not doing it out of good faith...
im sure he loves u. other wise he wouldnt even offer.
but maybe he just needs u to thank him in a VERY diff way than just saying "Thank You" ......think about it

You should tell him how he makes you feel and that you would rather not borrow money from him in the future because of that.

he's belittling you,you need to tell him and ask him if he has such a problem lending you money ,why does he do it,and if it cause he wants to help you out,then he can also help you out by not making you feel like sh*t,and he should aplogize or tell him bye

I have a BF like that, the trouble is at the end of the month i always have to lend some as I spend money like water. It is his way of showing
1. how you could never manage without him
2. You have to keep saying how great he is
3. No sure of 3!

Does he ever wash up or hoover? When my BF does he always says "I hoovered today didyou notice" Women never say that to men do we? We would be telling them everything we do!

Ignore him, it is his way of feeling good about himself and that he has helped.

I guess stop taking him up on his offers in order to stay free of his complaining after, or stop seeing him and find someone who really cares about you.

It sounds like his crappy way of letting you know he wants the money back. I can't think of anything else

you should not have to deal with that i say find a down to earth man with respect and values and tell him to kick rocks no one should have to pay for needing help it anit right you are still you at the end of the day

Sounds as if he is pissed at having to bail you out AGAIN and he feels like he is being taken advantage of by doing it. BTW have you EVER paid him back for previous loans? My suggestion is to thank him in a way only a woman can (don't act stupid, you know what I mean), be glad you've got him and DON'T ever "borrow" money from him again.

Just take him to your bedroom whenever he starts complaining

Just come to daddy and ill make it all better just kidding.I think maybe he feels like a sucker for paying just give him a little something special and hell get over it .