Today is my last day at work, and I like this girl...?

I have been working for the same company for 5 years, and everyday, this girl in my office, who woks in the same space as me, sits behind me, works all day long, we chat every now and then, but OH MY GOD, she is SO HOT!

I am not just talking about her face and body, but her personality, demeanor, her likes and interests are all very similar to mine. She has a boyfriend and I am married, which is why I have been a good husband and NEVER acted on it...but it's my last day, and I have an obsession with this girl that she has never know about...how do I just let that go? Do I say anything?? HELP! She's the kind of girl I wish I had married, and she is in my thoughts day and night, when I am at work or not.

the last time i spoiled my wife...every week, i LOVE my wife, i know i do not LOVe this work girl, but the carnal attraction is unbearable. she's in my head from morning until night, even if i do not see her for 3 or 4 days like over the weekend or holidays.

like when i went skiing over Christmas, all i thought about was her while i was going over mogles and stuff. i thought about her this morning when i was brushing my teeth, i thought how does she brush her teeth, i bet her hair sways ever so gently while she does.

i thought about her when i was listenin to the radio...the weather forcast came on, and i heard the word "windy" which rhymes with her name "mindy", and i couldnt stop thinking about her after that.

im obsessed with her as much as my wife, but ive been with my with for 9 years, you know how it is. (and dont give me that BS about love never fades blah blah - it does, even for ppl who are soulmates)

You do not say anything. Are you looking for trouble? Then again, maybe she'd put you in your place.

It's ok to appreciate women who have beautiful features and personality. But no matter what, she's not perfect and she has faults that you don't know about. It's good you're leaving your work. Try to forget about her.

If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence...you better start taking care of your own lawn. When was the last time you spoiled your wife and obsessed over her?

So you think she'll be impressed that you are married and have thoughts of her? What is it that you want?