Crush on co worker, just hard to figure him out?

He is my coworker and he is older than me-12 years older. I am 25. He is a very friendly guy, he talks to every single lady at the office. He seems to flirt a lot. But what I have notice that he flirts more with me? I don't know if he likes me? What are some possible hints? He seems just too friendly and enthusiastic. A very mature man. He tends to ask how I am doing? And If I have anything fun coming up or how my weekend was? I feel that he probably asks other ladies too at the office. I just haven't heard it. He tends to borrow things from me, but I feel and find reason that I am the only one who has these things available. He has only asked for two favors: about using my office space and my graphing tools. We tend to compliment each other a lot. The thing is that I think he has a girlfriend, but not sure? He is mysterious, but also a happy guy. He is very hard to figure out. Just too friendly and pepy. I have known him for 10 months now. ?

many of the questions on Yahoo remind me of When Harry met Sally. As I remember Harry does not feel that men and women can be friends without more being involved. As I read many of the questions I tend to believe his theory. Why is it that flirting can not occur without romance. I have always loved to flirt. I love to tease and I enjoy conversation. However, I am married. Flirtatious behavior is a part of human behavior. It seems that you have taken many incidents of flirting and made them into a possible relationship. If that is the course it takes you will need to take the chance and move the conversation into that area. Just remember on the job relationships can create penalties if they fail..I suggest you stick with flirtation and see it for what it is.

a gift would give him special attention to you.

drop a sensible hint through compliment and see but backstep if he is flirting