Does it mean he needs space...?

been engaged to a guy since jan... [arrange marrage] gettin married in aug... v chat online almost everyday!.. but recenly hes got tht attitude... dont wait for me online... i have a lot of things on my mind. [office, work, etc] so dont get all worried...

he said this to me.. in even if i sms him... a simple. hey where r u sweety... whats wrong with him... ?

also... my status is always stated online.. weather im on the other end or not.. so many times when he has started a convo.. its always sum one else on the computer.. and tht turns him off... so he decided he will wont start a convo... sooo ...

possibly. Just do this...dont message him everytime you see him online. Let him message you first sometimes, Im sure you are a busy person too. He could just be busy (like what he told you).

let him look for you on line sometimes maybe he feels you are getting to needy

There is a life outside the internet and people do need to do other things other than being connected 24/7. Stop the obsession please! Good luck

Did I understand you correctly -- arranged marriage??
If so, please be careful.

But either way, if you feel him pulling away, back off and see what happens BEFORE you get married. If he is meant to be yours, he will make the next move.

Is it tradition of your religion or culture to have an arrange marriage? Do you have an opinion in this or is it a done deal... I reccomend you meet this guy and form a relationship with him, and other guys before picking a man to marry. I respect that it is an important part of many people's culture, but the times are a changing

I wouldn't worry. But change your status so it doesn't always say you're online. Or try one of the free internet voicecall things (I think yahoo has one) where you talk on the phone over the internet for free instead of messaging.