Comments on my situation....?

So, as graduation gets closer and closer, i feel weirder than ever. me and my girlfriend have been together since the beginning of my junior year. we have grown so close to eachother. we have talked about future plans. we have discussed wanting to stay together and make this work. we both will be attending different schools next fall that are about an hour drive away from eachother. i think the reason i feel so... i really dont know how to explain it... but the reason i feel weird is because i've never really been away from my girlfriend for extended periods of time. like i'm not saying i'm completely miserable without her, i do have a life away from my relationship with her, but i feel as though it wont be the same and slowly we will start drifting away from eachother. i am extremely scared of losing her and want the connection to stay strong. i have images in my head of us having boring conversations on the phone while she goes to her school and falls head over heels for a new guy she has met. the possibilities of wonderful guys she can meet and be around all the time, will i think create space between us and she'll be happier with the guys she sees everyday.... i know time will only tell where this leads, but i just thought i'd share how i'm feeling and hope for positive feedback.

hello---I understand what you are feeling and when one person loves another this is totally understandable that you would have these throughts in your head. I know becuase i feel the same way with the person i love. I cant control the way you feel and the thoughts you have but what i can say is that if you two TRULY love eachother you will surpass all the obsticles that come in your paths no matter what. As cliche as that sounds i really believe that and I hope you will as well. You cant change where life takes the both of you so believe in your heart that whatever happens for better or worse it happens for a reason. If she trully loves you and you truly love her love always finds a way. I wish you the best for your relationship and if only more men think the way you do...there wouldnt be so many girls with broken hearts ;)

Or you can be surrounded by amazing women at your school. The bottom line is nobody can predict the future, but long distance relationships CAN work if both parties are committed to making it work. Just be careful not to shut yourself off from any new experiences because you already have a girlfriend.

do ur best with this long distance relationships can hurt but they do work

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if she loves you and wants to stay with you no matter what, she will not start loving another guy and your relationship will not weaken you will not drift apart, either

my boyfriend and i were at two different schools an hour away from each other. it was hard, we argued a bit, and took a couple of "breaks."

he said the same things you did- about me falling for someone else cause there'd be more guys at my school that i'd see everyday... but she's probably thinking the same thing about you and girls at your school!

i got to see my boyfriend about once a week or once every other week, which made it so much easier. i'd either drive to see him, he'd come see me, or we'd meet at our home town. we talked every day, had online video chance so we could talk "in person" and all of that really helped. it was hard, but we got through it and we're still together.

all i can say is work at it- relationships are super hard- and if it's meant to be it'll work out in the end. but i don't suggest breaking up because of school. i just don't think it's a good enough reason to split. good luck and carpe diem!

Distance makes the heart grow fonder.... however...as a woman...write her letters...she will have something to read while your apart...phone calls are good to of course...but letters alow her to feel your love in words and it gives her something to hold and cherish, and it will remind her that you love her...plan dates for the weekend...maybe you go there one week, she go to your place the next...make sure she knows your new friends...take a great lovey dovey photo and make two copies...one for you one for her...but remember do not suffocate her with inquiries as to what she is doing...if you tell her what your doing, she'll tell you...tell her you miss her, and you can't wait to see her...but don't tell her alllllll the time...alow a little space...
Good Luck...