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I am engaged and my fiance treats me like a maid and talks negative about me all the time. he is also like 300 lb and when i met him he was 160. he does not want to lose the weight. and he has also cheated on me and i have never cheated on him. So anyway i take the bus to work and i talk to these two guys. Well go to find out I really like the one guy. he treats me good and respects woman. and that is what i want in a guy. and I would like to hang out with him but I can not get any time to myself and my Fiance has to be up my butt all the time and he wont let me do anything by myself. I need space and he does not respect that. I give him space when he needs it.

So what do i do? What do i tell my Fiance?
I would like one night to go out by myself. and enjoy being alone.
also what do i do about the guy on the bus because i really like him and would like to hang out with him just one

You are obviously a big girl and don't need a daddy. Dump your fiance and just tell him straight up - I don't need someone to control me and I refuse to be married to someone who treats me like a slave and a piece of trash! You are capable and ALLOWED to make your own choices - what will he do if you did leave or go out one night? Would he hit you? If so, you can call the cops because you don't have to tolerate that BS from anyone.

Maybe you shouldn't marry this guy after all. I mean he doesn't seem right for you. Maybe you should break it off with him, and go hang out with the other dude, because the man you are about to marry, doesn't treat you right. So find someone that does, and it seems like you have already found someone that does, so hang out with the dude that you like.

Give him your ring back, and say "see ya big boy", you don't need a cheater, controller, jealous, machist....and 300 lbs.
There's a lot of guys out there that would treat you right, screw the fiance, break it up soon!!!!

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